wen｜dingjiao hanmo xingxing bulusi wengu xiangyuan

编辑 | 星星

ruguonixianzainianjin30sui，yongyouyifenwendingdegongzuo，niyuanyipaoqi“tiefanwan”，xuanzeconglingkaishichuangyema？

gujibushaorendouhuiyouyuyifan，bijingxianzai，meiyoushenmebiyongyouyifenwendingdeshouru，gengrangrenjuedetashi。danzongyourennifengerxing。jinqi，yiweishandongjinande85houxiaohuo，ciqulezijidetiefanwangongzuo，xuanzechuangyechengweiyimingduanshipinbozhu。xiaoxiyichu，likeyinfalewangyoudejidaguanzhu。

henduowangyouduitadexingweibiaoshibulijie，danyeyouyibufenrenrenweitahenyonggan，“renyaoganyuzouchushushiquan，nianlingbushiwenti。”

likaitizhineixuyaoyongqi。「dingjiao」xunzhaodaolewuweipengyou，tamencengzaitizhineiduonian，quezaiburuzhongnianhou“chongdong”leyiba，dishanglizhixin，kaishilemanzhangdechuangyezhilu。

至于为何离开？

yourenshibumanzuzijidezhiyexianzhuang，yushi“toutou”xuexixingyezhishi，zaizhaodaoshijihoujishilikai；yourenshiyinweigongzuofanzhongwuliao，jiashanghejiarenzhangqiliangdifenju，youyulehenjiuhouxuanzefangqiwendinggongzuo；haiyourendanchunshiyinwei“buheshi”，zishenxinggewufayuzheifenzhiyexiangpipei，shenzhishentiyechuxianlewenti，zuizhongbuxiangzaimianqiangziji。

paoqutiefanwanhou，dajiadeganjuedazhixiangtong。gongzuofenweibianle，gandaolebuxiaodejingzhengyali，chuangyeguochengzhongyudaolehenduoshiliaoweijidekunnan。buguo，tamenbingbuhouhui，shenzhiyouhenduoren，zaichuangyeshiyoulegengdadeshouhuo，zhaodaolejiuweidehuoli。

以下是他们的故事。

安全感来源于自己，而不是某个“铁饭碗”

教培行业从业者小乔 | 浙江 31岁

2014niandaxuebiyehou，wojiubeijiaxiangsifaxitongshiyebianzhiluqule，chengledarenkouzhong“bierenjiadehaizi”。houlai，shiyedanweixuandiaokaoshi，woyibishimianshidiyidechengjibeimoushengjiwenhuadanweiluqu。liangduanjinglijiaqilai，wozaitizhineidailedayue6nian，nianxinzai15wan-18wanyuan。

xianglikaitizhineiyoujifangmiandeyuanyin：yishi，wodegongzuoneirongyixuanchuanweizhu，gongzuoliangsuanshibijiaodade，jingchangyaojiaban，qiegongzuojibenyilingdaomanyiweizhu，meiyoutaiduojihuifahuizijidezhudongxing；shourufangmianyeshiyigeyinsu，woquleshengjidanweihoudaiyubiwozaijicenghaiyaodi，jihushiyiyanwangdaotoude“wendingdanqiongqiemang”；lingwai，woairenzailingyigechengshidetizhineigongzuo，womenzhangqiliangdifenju。

haiyouyigezhongyaoyuanyinshiwodezhuanyeheaihao。woshiboyinzhuchikebanchushen，wohenxihuanyuyanyishu，zaitizhineiyeyizhicanyulangsong、yishutuandenghuodong。wodemengxiangshizuoyijiaxiaoermeideyuyanyishuzhongxin，wobuxihuanchuantongjigoudeyuyanyishujiaoxuemoshi，buxihuanneixiebeikehuade“xiaodaren”，woxihuanchuncui、zhenshi、zirandebiaoda。wodemubiaoshipeiyangchujuyoudulizixinbiaodanenglidehaizi，erbushizhihuimofangde“xiaodaren”。

sikaolebannianzuoyou，2020nian，zaiwo30suideshihou，wocongtizhineiluocile。

wolizhihoumeiyoumashangkaishichuangye，xianqushaoeryishupeixunjigouzuoleyinianduodezhixingxiaozhang。wodeguihuashitongguozheigegangweikuaisuxuexixingyedeyunyingmoshi、duanlianzijizhangkongquanjudenengli。

congzheifengongzuolizhihou，wochenglilezijideshaoeryuyanyishupeixungongzuoshi。wodeyuqibijiaodi，meiyoubapanziputaida，shijifazhanhaisuanbucuo，yinianhou，xueyuanrenshujiufanleliangfan，daomuqianyeyizhipingwenyunxing。

likaitizhineibingchuangyeyihouwomianlindezuidakunnanshizijixintaidebengta。wozaigapdeshijianliyidubianchenglinghuojiuyezhe，yaozijijiaowuxianyijin，xinlishanghenshiluo。womenzhiqiandelingdaohelaoshiyehuiduiwodexingweibiaoshibulijie，shenzhiyourenshuowoweileheairentuanjuercizhishi“lianainao”。haiyoulikaitizhineizhihouwocaimingbai，henduoyouyueganheguanghuandoushisuochudepingtaifuyuwode，jidabuanquanganxiangwoxilai。

chuangyedeshijikunnanmeiyoujidaowo，danzheigeguochengzhongxinlideluocharangwoyicicibengkui。houlaiwoouranjiankandaoyijuhua：“yinweipingtaieryouguangmangderenmeishenmelebuqi，womenyaoxuehuizijichengjiuziji”。zheijuhuajidaniuzhuanlewodexintai。wozaiyicicibengkuihouyidiandianzhongjianzijidexintai，diudiaolezhiqiandebaofu，cong0zailai，jiaotashidizuohaomeiyijianshi。

dangran，chuangyehouwoyejinglilezuojigoudejianxin、yiqingdeyingxiang、henduorenduijiaopeixingyedechangshuai。buguodangwokandaoxueshengmendejinbuhejiazhangdekendingzhihou，chengjiuganyezaiyidiandianjianliqilai。

daoxianzaiweizhi，womeiyouhouhuiguolikaitizhinei。wozailizhihoushouhuolemeimandejiating，zaichuangyezhongzhaodaolekuaile。xianzaishourubizhiqiangaoyixie，shijianyegengziyou，yebuyongweilelingdaomanyiquzuoyixieshiqing，ershizuoworenweigaizuodeshi。cishiwocaimingbai，anquanganlaiyuanyuziji，erbushimouge“tiefanwan”。

duiyuxiangfangqi“tiefanwan”deren，ruguoshiyishixingqi，woquandajialengjing。ruguoyoubaizaiyanqianduanqineiqueshijiejuebuledewenti，bingqieyounenglizhonglai，nengzuohaoxintaijianshe，yekeyicizhi。

体制内待了6年，辞职后打工为开宠物店做准备

待成为宠物店老板的也猫 | 云南 30岁

dayincizhibaogao、tianbiaoge、helingdaotanhua、jiashuqianshuchengnuoshu、shangjibeian、kaihuiyanjiu、banlishouxu、zhuandidangan，zaianzhaoshangshushunxuwancheng8xiangliucheng，zhetengle1geyueduohou，wozhengshilizhile。

woshi2016nianbiye，houlaishunlijinrudaoletizhinei。zheiligongzuoqingsong，chaojiuwanwu，zhoumoshuangxiu，meigeyuedaoshouxinzi8000duoyuan。zheigeshuipingzaiwolaojiadongbeilaishuo，suanshihenbucuode。

danzai2023nian2yue，woxuanzelelizhi。

duiyuyaobuyaofangqitizhineidegongzuo，woyouyuledagaibannian。zuizhongzuochujueding，zhuyaoyousandianyuanyin，yishibuxiangguoyichengbubiandeshenghuo，zheilidegongzuojimeiyouhanjinliang，yebushizijixihuande；ershidanweilijiahenyuan，kaicheyao5geduoxiaoshi；sanshizheifengongzuorangwohenanpengyouzhangqiyidi。suoyiwozuizhongxuanzelecizhi，bingcongdongbeilaidaoleyunnan。

yikaishijiarenpengyoujuedewofangqizheifengongzuobingbumingzhi，yedouquanguowo。danrenshengshizijide，houlaitamenjuede，ruguowokaolvqingchu，jiuzuoba。qishiwoyekeyixuanzezaiyunnankaobian，danhaishixiangzuodianzijixihuandeshi，suoyijiupansuanzhezaiyunnankaiyijiachongwudian。

wotongguogezhongqudaolejieleguanyukaichongwudiandehenduojingyan，youhenduozhichideshengyin，shuozheikeshigechaoyangxingye，danyeyourengaosuwo，kaichongwudianhenzanghenlei，haishiyaojinshen。

weilenongqingshijiqingkuang，jiashangzijizhiqianqueshiyemeiyoushenmechuangyejingyan，suoyijiuxianquleyijiachongwudiandagong，xiwanglejieqingchulimiandeyixiemendaohou，zaiyinianneibazijidediankaiqilai。

buguo，zaidagongdeguochengzhong，wofaxianzijibakaichongwudianzheishi，xiangdetairongyile。

shouxianshizhendehenlei。zijimeiyouzheifangmiandegongzuojingyan，suoyiyaocongdianlizuichujidemeirongshizhulizuoqi，zheiyejiuyiweizhegongzihendi，zhiyou2000yuanzuoyou。dangongzuoqiangdubudi，woyuanlaishizuobangongshi，huandaozheili，meitianshoumangjiaoluan，ganleyizhouhou，wojiushengbingfashaole。

houlaiwoyouhuanleyijiachongwuzhensuo，zheijiadianhuishejiyixiechongwujiuzhi，suoyiwochulexuexijichongwuxizaomeirong，haihuijixiaodongwuchuliwaishang、peiyaodeng。muqianwozaizheijiadiandailebannianduo，meigeyuegongzi3000yuan-5000yuan。

wofaxianzaitizhineigongzuoyuchuangye、dagongdouhenbuyiyang。wozhiqiandegongzuozhongfuxingbijiaogao，erxianzaichulerichanggongzuowai，haiyaozhaoshijianxuexikanyixieguanyubinglixuedeshu。suiranzheiyixingyemenjianbugao，xiangwozheiyangdexiaobaiyenengshangshou，danxiangyaorangzijichengweiyige“chengshou”，duligaodingjichongwudazhen、kaiyao、shuye、shoushu、huayanzheixieshiqing，haishibuxingde，lilunheshicaodoudegenshang。

danwohuiyizhijianchi，yinweiwokaichongwudiandexiangfameiyoubian，erqiehaiyouleshengji。woyaokaiyijiadaiyiliaodechongwudian，buzaizhishijiandandijichongwumeirong。

zheiduanshijianwodeganchushi，suiranxiangbizaitizhineigongzuo，wodegongzuoliangzengjiale，gongziyejiangdile，danwoyiranbuhouhui，nenghexihuanderenzuozhexihuandeshi，wojuedeshiyijianhenxingfudeshiqing。woxiangyaoduineixieshenchutizhinei、youyuyaobuyaolikaiquzhuixunmengxiangzijichuangyedepengyoushuo，“zhiyaoxiangqingchulejiuquzuoba，renshengzhiyouyici，dadanyidianqutiyan。”

离开国企投身养老行业，愁订单、干苦活但自由

护老康品牌创始人苏明薇 | 北京 36岁

lizhichuangyehou，heqiantongshijipengyoumenliaotian，faxiandajiaduoduoshaoshaodouyou“zijigandiansha”dexiangfa，danjuedaduoshuderenzhitingliuzaixiangfashang，zhenzhengcizhichuangyede，jihumeiyou。

suoyihenduorenwenwo，weishenmeniyouyongqicongtiefanwancizhi，cong0kaiqichuangyezhilu？wodedaanhenjiandan，cong2020nian，wojiukaishiweizheicichuangyezuozhunbeile。

wozaiguoqiganle10nian，danzhiyefazhanbujiyuqi。wodexinggeyizhidoushibuyuananyuxianzhuangde，youfeichangqiangliexiangzuoshidedongli。weilepoju，wozai2020niandulerendadembakecheng，mingyundechilunjiucikaishizhuandong。

shangkedeguochengzhong，wojiechudaoleyanglaoxingye，buguangjieshoulexitonghuajiaoyu，gengcanguanlehenduochengshudeyanglaojigou，xuexiletamendeyinglimoshihefangfa。woshifenkanhaozhongguoyanglaoxingyeweilai5-10niandefazhan，xiwangnengjinzaoqierushichang，dachupinpai。

dangshidekechengzhongyouyimenchuangyeguanlike，jiekezuoyexuyaoxieyigechuangyebp，wojiuxielehulaokangdechuxing。2021nianshipeizhenyuannian，wodebpshoudaolehenduolaoshihetouzirenderenke，2021nian6yueshangwanneimenke，9yuewojiubagongsikaileqilai，dangshichuyujujiabangongzhuangtai，wobiankaishilemanzhangde“jianzhichuangye”zhilu。

zhenzhengkaishichuangyehou，wofaxianhenduorendoushuokanhaoyanglaoxingyedeqianjing，danzhenzhengjianchizuoxiaquderenquehenshao。yinweiyanglaoxingyebushiyigenengzhengdaqianhekuaiqiandexingye，ershigeduanqishenzhizhongqidouhennanyinglidexingye，duzhutaida，touruyetaida。

tongshi，chuangyezhededuozhongshenfenduiwoyeyouhendatiaozhan。zuoweifuwuzhe，wobujinyaojubeiyiyaoxuezhishi，tigongzhuanyedehulifuwu，haixuyaotigongqingxujiazhihexinlishudao；zuoweiguanlizhe，wojiyaozaishichangfazhanzaoqijinxingyonghuxinzhijiaoyu，haiyaotongchougongsideyunweihexiaoshou。

wozaicizhichuangyezhiqian，cengquxiangyigeqianbeiqingjiao，duifangjianyiwobuyaocizhi。tarenwei，dangyigerenzaidagongsidaiguanle，genbenshiyingbuleziyuankuifaxiadeconglinfaze，yijiwufajubeicongjicengzuoqidexintai。haozaiwoshiyingdehenhao，wozuikaishichuangyedeshihoushenmedoumeiyou，zijizuopeizhen、dangkefu，yidanyidancongshenbianderenkaishihuoke，jianchidaoxianzai。

suizheyewuliangjianjiannenggouzhichengqigongsideyunzhuan，wozaijinnianlizhi，quanshenxintourudaochuangyezhong。muqian，gongsiaoguoyiqinghuolexialai，zaipeizhenyewudejichushangjialezhuyuyewu。womenxianzaihexintuanduishi4geyuangong，70gepeizhenshi，4gezhuyushi，leijipeizhenle3000duogehuanzhe。jinnian，tuanduidemubiaoshijixukuodakeyuan，tigaodingdanshuliang。

lizhideshihou，wokuleyichang，yinweiwomingbai，zaiyemeiyouyigetiefanwannengjiwodoudile。danrujin，wogengduoganshoudaoleyizhongziyou。zheizhongziyoulaiziwozhidaozijihaikeyizuohenduoshi，tongyangwoyemingbaijiaosezhuanbianzhihou，zijiyoujuxianxing，xuyaobudekehaihenduo，danwohuijinzijisuonengquzuo。

duiyuqitayeyoulizhichuangyexiangfadepengyou，woyouliangdianjianyi：shouxianwenwenzijizheijianshidaodixiangqingchulemeiyou，nengbunengzhuanqian？qicijiushibuyidingfeiyaocizhilecainengquchuangye，keyixianbatadangfuyelaizuo，dengyouqiselezaiquanzhifazhan。

17年体制工作的经历，让我创业有了更强的底气

“山外·空间”创始人徐敏 | 湖北恩施 40岁

wozaitizhineiyizhizuodaowomendanweidefuzhi，qunian3yuecizhi，chuangbanle“shanwai·kongjian”ziranyanxuejidi。

xiangwozheizhongzhudonglikaitizhichuangyederenzaidangdifeichangshaojian。yinweiwomenzheilidefazhanxiangduiluohou，2008niancaitongtielu，dabufenrendouhuixuanzezaixiangduianwendetizhineishangban。

erwoshiyigetebiexiangganshideren，zaiyiqiandehuanjingli，youshihoubunengfangkaishoujiao。ruguowoyizhizaitizhinei，jiuxuyaobamouxiefangmiandeyoushianxiaqu，sipingbawendizuodaotuixiu。liangnianqian，wokaishimanmanyoulechuangyedexiangfa。qunianzhengshichuangyeshi，wo39sui。

woyaoganxie17niantizhineidegongzuojingli，tajilewogengquanmiandekanwentideshijiao，yijifengfudeguanlijingyan。

chuangyeqianwobangjialijieshouguoyijiacanting，shangshouhoudediyijianshishidingrendinggang，paokaixianyoude32geyuangong，xianfenxigangweixuqiu，zaigenjumeigegangweidegongzuolianglaiquedingxuyaoduoshaoren，meigerenfenpeishenmerenwu，ruhejinxingjixiaoguanli。

yinweiwozhiqianzuoguozhenggong，ganlebaniandebangongshizhuren，zhidaoruhetongguozhidusheji，zuidahuajifayuangongjijixing，chongfenfahuizuzhidexiaolv。jingguoyifandiaozheng，cantingderenxiaodedaohendatigao，yuangongzhuandeduole，yegengyouganjingle。

woyizhirenwei，tizhineiqishishizhongguozuihaodeqiye，tadefencenglingdao、banzichengyuandezhidujianshe、guizegan，douyouhenduoxuewen。nidegejujuedingleniganshidefangxiang，yijiruhechulihaogezhongguanxi。suoyichulaichuangyederen，yidingyaoyouguanlijingyan，huozheyouyijizhizhang，zheiyangchenggongdegailvcaigengda。

yanxueshijinniandeyigedafengkou，danwozaozai2018nianjiuyijingzaiyanjiuyanxuexiangguandezhengce，hailiyonggongxiudeshijiandaobeijingxuexi，yizhizailiuyixingyedejinzhan。jinnianwoluodi“shanwai·kongjian”yanxuejidi，kuaisudajianqiyunyingtuandui，shiyinweiwozhiqianjiuzuohaolezhunbei。

shijichuangyeguochengzhong，yeyouyixieqingkuangshiwomeixiangdaode，biruguanxiherenshizijinanyizhangkongde。suirandajiadoujuedetizhineiderenjiguanxifuza，qishimeigerendeshenfenyoutizhidanbao，dajiadouzhigenzhidi。fanerzaishengyichangshang，renxingedupi，nibudebuliugexinyan。

wodediyigeyanxuejidishigenyigerenshiduoniandepengyouhezuojianchengde，woweicitouruledaliangzijinhejingli。danzheigehehuorenxiangwoyinmanletagerendezhaiwuwenti，daozhiyingxiangdaojididecaiwuzhuangkuang，houlaiwojuedingtuichu，shuangfanglachelehenzhangyiduanshijian，zuihoumeibanfazhinengsuzhugongtang。

zheiduiwoderenzhizaochenghendachongji。wojuedexinrentaizhongyaole，ruguohezuohuobanbugoutancheng，shimeifayiqizuoshiqingde。

wojuedecongtizhineilizhichuangyexuyaomodadeyongqi，tabushiyigechongdongdeshiqing，yebuyidingshihesuoyouren。womengentizhideguanxijiuxiangnannvpengyou，xuanzekaishihuoxuhenxingfen，danxuanzejieshushiyigehentongkudeguocheng，yidingyaoquanhenglibixiangqingchu。

duiyuyoucizhichuangyexiangfaderen，wodejianyishi，yishiyaozuohaoxinlijianshe，fangxiatizhineimomingqimiaodeyouyuegan、xurongxin；ershiyaoyoujingjishangdebaozheng；sanshiyaojizijidingmubiaohefangxiang，buyaomangmucizhi。

裸辞后重新找回自驱力，感觉自己又有劲生活了

陶艺店创业者大花 | 河北 31岁

xueshengmenkaixuele，erwozhongyubuyongzaizoushangjiangtai，zheiliangtianmeimeixiangdaozheili，doujuedesongleyikouqi。

qunianshujia，wozhengshiciqulezaibianjiaoshidegongzuo，chengleziyouren。woshengxingbuaishuohua，xihuananjing，weishenmehuidanglaoshi，shiyinweifumudeqidai，haiyouwozijidetuoxie。

qishiyanjiushengbiyehou，wocengjingzaibeijingdaguoliangniangong。neishiwodediyifengongzuo，danyinweiwogerennengliyouxian，jiashanglingdaoyaoqiuhengao，woyiduxianruleziwohuaiyi。meiwandouyaoxinglaihenduoci，zongshimengjianlingdaojiwodadianhua、buzhirenwu，zuikuazhangdeshihousangeyueshoule20jin，zhenggerenzhuangtaifeichangcha。jiandaoyiqiandeshuren，meigerenjihudouhuiwen，“nijinglileshenme？”meicihuijia，bamadouhuiquanwo“huijiakaobianba”。

zaijiadaiyebannianhou，woyekaishifansi，zijishibushibushihezaidachengshidapin，fumudangshiyizhituorenrangwozhuanxingdanglaoshi，wotuoxiele。neishiwoyouliangtiaolukeyixuan，bendihetongzhijiaoshiheyidibianzhi。bamahewodouqingxiangyubianzhi，tamenjuedezheishitiefanwan，daibiaozhexiabanbeizideanwenwuyou。erwoshixiangyongyidihuanziyou。

2019nianxiatian，wojinlehebeimouxianchengdeyizuogongligaozhong，danggaozhongyuwenlaoshijianbanzhuren。dangwozoushangjiangtai，wojiuzhidaobushihedanglaoshi。

zuichuyouyuwomeijingyan，jiaoxuezhishihaibuchengtixi，jishiwohaohaobeike，buduanjingjin，xueshengmenyizhidoujuedewojiaodecha。wozaibanlishizhongjianlibuqiquanwei，yizhiyuhoulaiwoqiangxingbaochiyansufennu，yehennanweichizhixu。

buguangshichulixueshengguanxi，yingduixuexiaodegezhongguizhangzhidu、bisai，chulilingdaoguanxi，duiwolaishuodoufeichangxiaohaojingqishen。meizhoujiangjin40jieke，zaoshangzaodu，wanshangchaqin，meitianbeikejihudouyaobeidaohoubanye，jianggongkaikeduiwozheizhongshekonglaishuogengshiemengyiyang。

wojiduxiangcizhi，danzuidadezulilaizifumu。womeicigenbamashuo，zijibuheshiganzheiyixing，douhuibeishuoshidanibudao，rangwofanshengziji。

wofaxianzijikaishijingchangxingdefadou、yelishimian，2021nianshujiaqijian，chachuzhongdujiaolv＋zhongduyiyu，chiyaonenghuanjie，danzhengzhuangjingchangfanfu。zaixuexiao，qingjiakanbinghennan，wofadou、xinzangchouchou、huxikunnandeqingkuangshenzhijingchangfashengzaiketangshang。

shuoshihua，houqizaixuexiao，woduixueshengdezerenganhefengxianjingshenyijingzhujianxiaoshi，zaidaixiaqu，shentichibuxiaobushuo，haiwurenzidi。

2022nianchunjieqian，wotichucizhi，buguo，yinweixuexiaowanliu，duodaileyigexueqi，qunianshujiaqianbashouxubanwan。zheikenengshiwozheimeduonianzuoguodezuiyonggandeshile。suiranwobabadaoxianzaidoubulijie，danwoyijinggubuleneimeduole。

luocihou，wokaishijianchikanbing、renzhenchiyao。jinnian5yue，wodejingdezhenzhixingzhongyuchengxing，zaijingdezhenbaolegeban，xuexitaoyi。suiranhenduorendiaokan，zheijianzhijiushilaidangtaoyitezhongbingde，meitianhaishi996，leidaoshoudoutaibuqilai。danduiwolaishuo，zaineilideyigeyue，buyongguoduoshejiao，zhixuyaomeitiannieni、danghaoyigetaoyinvgongjiuhenzhizu。

xianzai，wogengganxieshenghuojiejiandeziji，jihuanazhezanxiadeliuweishucunkuan，heyigepengyouhekaiyijiataoyixiaodian，zhimaichengpin，buanpaixuexipeixun。womendexiaodianjihuashiyiqijiankaiye。

quedingxingqu，zhaohuiziquli，youjingshenghuodeganjue，zhendejiuweile。

应受访者要求，文中也猫、小乔、大花为化名。