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jinjinian，zaijinglilefangjiaguoshanchebandediedangqifuhou，yixierenkaishizhongxinshenshizijidejiazhiguanheshenghuofangshi，shitucongbeikunbangde“jiasuo”zhongzhengtuochulai。

shenzhiyoubushaorenxuanzezhijiebafangzimaile，dasuanyongzufangdefangshiduguozijideyisheng。

zaichuantongguannianli，fangzibujinjinshiyigejiayichuzhusuo，haishianquanganyuguishugandelaiyuan，shenzhishicaifuhediweidexiangzheng，yincihenduorenweileyongyouyitaoshuyuzijidefangzi，buxiqingjinjidairendejixu。 rujinzeyouyuelaiyueduonianqingrenxuanze“lingpixijing”。

benqixianweigushidezhujiaojiushizheixiebuzouxunchangluderen。cengjing，tamenyeshigoufangdajunzhongdeyiyuan，weilemaidaomengxiangzhongdefangzi，pinmingdapin，buganxiedai，keshifangzidaoshouhou，tamenquefaxian，yuanbenchongjingdemeihaoshenghuobingweiruqierzhi。

youdeyinweigaoedefangdaiyalichuanbuguoqi，youdefaxianshenghuozhiliangbingmeiyoushizhixingtigao，faneryinweimaifangxishenglehenduobaoguidedongxi。yushi，tamenjuedingmaidiaobunengliutongdeshuzizichan，tongguozufanglaishixiancaiwudexiangduiziyouheshenghuodeduoyuanhua。

yixiashiguanyutamendezhenshigushi：

juedingbafangzimaidiaodeneiyike，qiumandexinliduoshaoyoudianshanggan。

tayigerenzaineijianwushipingfangmidexiaofangjianliduobu，congbeigangjindangzhuxiexuguangxiandeyangtai，daozhinengrongxiayizhangcanzhuodeguodao，zaidaobeixiangdechufang。meigejiaoluotadouxiangduokanyiyan。henkuai，zheilijiubuzaishuyutale。

2018nian，qiumanyimeipingfangmi48000yuandejiagemaixialeweiyubeijingtongzhoudezheigeershoufang。dangshi，tongzhoudefangjiazhengshishuizhangchuangaodeshihou，fuzhongxindeguanghuanjiashangbishilididejiage，zaiyusuanyouxiandeqiumanyanli，jijuxingjiabi。

zuoweiyigexinbeijingren，hehenduo“beipiao”yiyang，tayexiangyougezijidejia。weici，tabazijigongzuoduonianjizandecunkuandounalechulai，youcongqinpenghaoyoujieledianqian，coule80wandeshoufu。

图 | 裘曼购买的小区

qiumandemamaqichushibutongyitamaifangde，juedeliangbaiduowanzailaojianengmaigebieshule，kezaibeijingzhinengmaigebazhangdadedifang，weizhihaihenpian。danshiqiumanjianchi，mamayebuzaishuoshenme。

buguo，fangzimaixialaihou，qiumanyitianyemeiyouzhuguo。tadegongzuodanweizaixibeisihuan，fangzizaidongliuhuan，yaoshitongqindehuameitianwangfanyaosangeduoxiaoshi。

suoyi，jiandanzhuangxiuhou，qiumanbafangzizulechuqu，yinweididuanbuzhanyoushi，zujinmeigeyuezhiyouliangqianduo。

weilehaimeiyueqibaqiankuaidefangdai，qiumanzuidaxiandudijieshengkaizhi。tadeyuexinzhiyouyiwanduo，haiwanfangdai，zhifubiyaodeshenghuohuafeihou，suoshengwuji。

weileshengqian，tacongjiudiangongyubanjinlegongsifujindehezufang，meitianjifeigoutiaodiheshilaigerenpaiduixishu、shangcesuo。

gangmaifangshidexiyue，henkuaijiubeizhuojinjianzhoudeshenghuonanie。tabuganqulvxing，buganfangsididachidahe，yebunengrenxingdimaimaimai。xiangdaozheiyangderizihaiyaochixujishinian，qiumanhenbuganxin。

jianjiandi，tayishidao，maifangduiyutalaishuo，buguoshiyongyouleyizhongziqiqirendemanzugan，wanchengleyijianxiangjiehunshengziyiyangbixuwanchengderenshengdashi，haiyouzairenqianliaotianshikeyixuanyaoshuozaibeijingyoufangdeziben。chucizhiwai，haoxiangshenmedoumeiyou。

genghekuang，zicongtamailefangziyihou，fangjiajiuyizhizaijiang。yuanbenqiumanyemeizhiwangshengzhi，danjieliantiaoshuidejiagehaishichongpoletadexinlifangxian。

2023nian，qiumansuozaixiaoqudeershoufangchengjiaojiayijingdiepo4wanyuan/pingmi，yiweitongxiaoqudeyezhushenzhiyi210wandejiagemaidiaole60pingdeliangjushi，danjiazhiyou3.5wanyuan。

图 | 裘曼通州房子的小区外的街道

qiumanbuxiangzai“peipao”le。guolewunian“kuxingseng”deshenghuo，tadechengshoulidaolejixian。zuizhong，tayipeile40wandedaijiamaidiao“yang”lejiniande“tangshoushanyu”。

suiranyouzhonggerousideteng，dancongzhangyuanlaikan，qiumanhaishishirande：buyongzaidanxinfangjiadebodong，buyongzaijiyinxingdagong，haigaoedefangdaihelixi，hainengzugehaodiandefangzi，xiangqunaerjiuqunaer，xiangmaishajiumaisha。

wentamaifanghoubuhouhui，qiumanshuo：“jishifangzibumai，woyedezufangzhu，yishishangbantaiyuan，ershimianjitaixiao，jiarenconglaojiaguolaiyebugouzhu。xianzaifangzimaile，youlechongzudexianjinliuzhipeishenghuo，riziguodebuneimeningba，shenghuozhiliangfandaotishengle。”

xiangxiangdangnianzhizhemaifangdejingtou，qiumanjuedezijiyoudianshaqi，“henduoshiqingdoushishuangxiangde。niyongyoubudongchandetongshi，yebeibudongchanzhanju，birushijian、jinglihejinqian，yongyoushiyifuchuweidaijiade。”

qiumanshenbiandepengyouyeyouhetayiyangmaifangzhisunde，birujiangshan。

jiangshanbiqiumanmaifangyaozaojinian，buguotameiyouzaibeijingmai，ershixuanzelejulibeijingbuyuandebeisanxian。

2015nianchuntian，jiangshanyizongjiabudaoyibaiwandejiage，maixialeyutongzhouyihezhigededachangdefangzi。neishi，zhengshibeisanxianfangzichaodezuiredeshihou。jiangshanjide，dangshimaifangshiyaopaihaode，zhongjiedaitazoujinxuanfangdatingdeshihou，qianyupingdewuziliyijingrenshanrenhai，bikanyanchanghuihairenao。

diyicijiandaozheichangmiandejiangshandangjijiaokuandingfang。buguo，tatuifangdesuduyehemaifangyiyang，shandianbanzuojueding。

fangzishiqifang，neigeshihouxiaoqudaobeijinghaimeiyougonggongjiaotong。dachehuiqudelushang，sijideyijuhuarangtajingxing：“nizaineigeniaodoubulashidedifangmailefangzi？beikaifashanghuyouleba？dengtawanshanqilai，meiyoushiniandoubugou！”

jiushiyinweizheijuhua，jiangshandiertianjiubafangzituile。taxuandefangzishiguoneishouquyizhidedakaifashang，jingzhuangjiaofudeyouzhishequ，yihaonanqiu，henduorenpaiduidoumaibudao。suoyi，jibenmeifeijing，kaifashangjiudayingletadetuifangyaoqiu。

nazhemaifangdeqian，jiangshanlvjuhaiwai，kaishihuanyoushijie。eryutatongshimaifangderen，yijingbeifangzitaolao。beisanxiandefangzidarezhihoudaleng，zhubule，yemaibuchuqu，chengweimingfuqishide“jilei”。

jiangshanganxiedangshiguoduandeziji，yeganxiedangchuneigebutaihuishuohuadesiji。xianzai，jinshinianguoqule，neigeyuanbenzhishoukeredexiaoqurengranyipianhuangliang。

jiangshanzaihuanyoushijiedeshihou，90houdeqianqianyezaichouhualvjudeshenghuo。

qianqianzhisuoyiyoulvjudexiangfa，qishishishoulefumudeyingxiang。

duonianyiqian，qianqianfumuhaimeiyoutuixiudeshihou，jiuyijingyouletuixiuhoudaoquanguogedijuzhudedasuan：

“anwobadeluojishuo，ruguowomenbuchuquwan，huozhebuhuanchengshi，jialinengduoyixieqian，duozanjishiwan。danzheibushitaxiangyaodeshenghuo。tashuotanianjineimedale，yihoubuxiangyibeizishenmedoumeiyou，buxiangnaerdoumeiquguo。”

huoxuzhengshiyinweifumubijiao“chao”，suoyidangqianqianjuedingbazhangjiakoudefangzimaidiaodeshihou，liangweilaorendouhenzhichi。

2023nian，qianqiandefumutuixiu，zhengshikaishilvjushengya，diyizhanshiqianqianshenghuodebeijing。

neigeshihou，qianqianhaizaizuozhechaojiuwanliudegongzuo。suirantahenaiwaner，danshizaicizhiqian，tabingmeiyoulvjudexiangfa。

“yiqianwomeixiangguozheigewenti，danshibabamamayouzheigexiangfazhihou，wojuedetinghaode，woyexianggentamenyiqiqu。”weici，qianqianciqulequanzhidegongzuo，kaishigenfumulangjitianya。

likaibeijinghou，qianqianyijiasankouyijujiangnan，xianzaizhuzaisuzhou，yihuangyiyoubannianduo。

图 | 茜茜旅居苏州的照片

“nanfangdezheigechengshiziyuan，baokuojijian，doutebiehao。caishichanga、gongyuana、yuanlina，haiyouyixiefuli，duilaonianrenhenyouhao。birushuotamenneigegongjiaokadawuzhe，ranhouditieshenmededoufeichangbianyi，dacheyebugui。”qianqianjieshaoshuo。

duiyudangqiandelvjushenghuo，fumuhenmanyi，qianqianyehenkaixin。xianzai，tashiyigeziyouzhiyezhe，pingshizuocehuahezhuangao，tongshiyezaijingyingzijidexiaogongsi。shijiankeyizijizhangwo，kongjiankeyiziyouqiehuan，renshengdelequchengjiheshizengzhang。

图 | 茜茜旅居苏州的照片

“xiangqunagechengshijuzhujiuqunagechengshizufang，zufangshichangbimaifangshichangjiandandeduo，xiazaiappjiuyouhailiangfangyuanrennixuan。yigechengshidainilejiuhuanyigechengshi，zhongguoneimeda，buyongdanxinmeidifangkequ。”

xiayigelvjudi，qianqianfumuxuanzedeshiqingdao，qianqianbuquedingzijishifouhuiyutamentongxing，danshilvjuzheijianshi，tashizuodingle。

PART 03 孩子在哪儿，家就在哪儿

yuqianqianmaifanglvjubutong，80houdexiaoyanmaifangwanquanshiweilehaizikaolv。

2017nian，weileerzishangxiaoxue，xiaoyanmaidiaozaibeijingfangshanzhulejinshiniandefangzi，mailehaidiandexuequfang。yeshicongzheiyiniankaishi，xiaoyanyijiakaishilemanzhangdezufangshenghuo。

xuequfangshidianxingde“laopoxiao”，genbenmeifazhuren。xiaoyanzaierzixuexiaofujinzuleyigeliangjushi。tazhudedifangshifengtai、haidian、shijingshansanqujiaohuidedifang，erzixuexiaoshuyuhaidian，tazudefangziyuxuexiaoxiangjubuyuan，queshuyufengtai。

图 | 小颜在丰台租住的小区

zudefangzishishanggeshiji80niandaidezhuzhai，jiajuhezhuangxiufenggedouhenchenjiu。xiaoyanfumuguolaideshihou，xiangbangtamentianzhiyixiedongxi，xiaoyanburang。

“bushizijidefangzi，jiumeiyouxinqingbuzhi，yebuxiangtianxindedongxi。kaishiyiweizhishiduanshijianzhuyizhenzi，meixiangdaozheiyizhujiushiliunian。

jinnianqiutianhaizijiuyaoshangchuzhongle，yebuzhidaohuifendaoneili，ruguozaifujinkenenghaihuizhuzheier，ruguoyuanleneijiudehuandaoxuexiaofujinzufang。chuzhongbiyezhihouhaiyougaozhong，daoshihaidehuandifang。zongzhi，haizizainaer，womenjiuzainaerzuba。”xiaoyanshuo。

xiaoyanyecengxiangguodengerzixiaoxuebiyele，baxuequfangmailezaimaiyitao。danshifangjiadebodong，fangdichanshichangdezhuduobuquedingxing，yijijiangyaobeifudegaoedaikuan，rangtayouyubujue：

“ruguobushiweilehaizi，wohuikaolvyizhizufangzhu。maifangmaideshiyuqi，fangzimaidaoshou，ruguomeiyouzengzhidequshi，fanerwangxiadiao，neihaiburuzufang。shouliyoujibaiwangandianshabuhao，duibudui？

woyigetongshijiazaihangtianqiao，bafangzimaile1000duowan，huilaojiale，xianzaishenghuodetebiezirun。danshiwomenbuxing，haiziyaoshangxuea，xianzaihenduodongxidouhefangzibangzaiyiqile，hukoua、jiaoyua，suoyijiusuanwozufangzhu，yedeliuyitaofangzuobaozhang。”

tongyangweilehaizikaolv，xiangbafangziliuzhudehaiyoutanxiansheng。

2018nian，tanxianshengzaichangpingdehuilongguan，maileyitaobashiduopingdeliangjushi，zongjiasanbaibashiduowan。heqiumanyiyang，tanxianshengyeshizaigaodiandeshihoumairu，zhihoufangjiajiuyizhizaijiang。

danshidaikuanbingmeiyoujiang，tanxianshengmeiyueyaobagongzideyidabannaquhaifangdai。

2021niannianchu，tanxianshengmengshenglehuilaojiachuangyedexiangfa，hejiarenshangliangyihou，yijialiukoujujiahuidaozhangsha。

zaizhangshashizhongxin，tanxianshengyimeiyuesanqianduodejiagezuleyitaoyibaiduopingdedasanju，laoshaosandailiukourenzhuqilaiyebujuedeji。

“huidaozheibian，laorentinggaoxingde，bijingjiazaizheier，zaibeijingtamenbutaishiying。zhudedifangkuanchangle，dajiadexinyechangliangle，muziguanxi、poxiguanxiyebiyiqianhaole。shangbandehuabuyongmeitianzaowanjiditie，tongqinfangbianhenduo，xingfuzhishuyetishengle。”

buguo，beijingdefangzitazanshihaimeiyoumai，yiliuqianduodejiagezulechuqu。

“zhuyaohaishiweilehaizikaolv。woheqizidehukoudouzaibeijing，lianggehaizidehukouyezaibeijing，yihoukenenghaiyaohuiqucanjiagaokao，fangzimailehukoubuzhihainengbunengliuzhu。”

tandaomaifangyuzufangdexuanze，tanxianshengshuo：“renshengshisaidaoyeshikuangye，suiranbukenengwanquanyouzheziji，danhaishiyaojinkenengduozuochangshi，anzijidexiangfaqushenghuoba。”

zaixinshidaidebeijingxia，yixiejiatingxuanzemaifangdangzuke，wuyishiyizhongshensishulvhoudejueding。zheizhongxuanzebingbuyiweizhefangqiduiwendingheanquandezhuiqiu。

shishishang，tamentongguogengjialinghuodefangshi，shixianlezijiderenshengmubiao。

zaibeifangzizhipeiyuziyoushenghuozhijian，tamenxuanzelebuzaibeichuantongde“maifangcainenganjia”deguannianshufu，dadanditiaozhanquanxindejuzhumoshi。

qishi，zaixifangguojia，zufangerjushiyizhonghenpubiandezhuangtai。jutongji，oumengguojiazhong，yousanchengrenkoushizufangzhude，qizhongdeguodezuzhubizuigao，dadao57.9%。

zaishoudoubolin，zheiyibiligengshigaoda82.6%。henduodeguorenyibeizidoushizaizufangzhongduguode，bingbushitamenmaibuqi，ershiduiyugoufang，tamenyouzhebuyiyangdekanfa。

huoxuzaibujiudejianglai，“zufang”zheiyicengjingdeguoduzhuangtai，yehuizhujianchengweigengduozhongguojiatingdexuanze，erzheiyejiangweifangdichanshichangdailaixindesikaohebiange。

wulunmaifanghaishizufang，meigerendouyouzizhuxuanzeshenghuofangshidequanli。zhongyaodeshi，yaolejiezijizhenzhengdexuqiu，zuochuzuishihedejueding。shenghuodeyiyizaiyuduoyuandetiyanheganshou，womenzunzhongmeiyizhongxuanze，yezunzhongmeiyigereaishenghuoderen。

（应受访者要求，文中部分人物为化名。）