wen|biaowaibiaoli wangxiyuan caobinling

编辑|付晓玲

“chuguoyimin，kendingyaozuohaowuzhishenghuojiangjidezhunbei。”

duiyiminkenengdailaideluocha，yutonghaobubihui。shenzhizaitayanli，guoneidewuzhishenghuoyijingguoshengle，chuguoweichangbushifanpuguizhen。

gengzhongyaodeshi，wuyudejiangdi，huidailaijingshendefengfu——zaiguonei，tayoucheyoufangyoubianzhi，haiyousigelaorenqiangzhedaihaizi，jibenyijingtangpingle；chuleguo，zhenzhengdefendoucaisuankaishi。

dantayefaxian，yiminjiuxiangweicheng，zaizijixiangwangchuguodulideshihou，bushaoyiminyezaifanrunhuiliu。

“guoneijichujiaoyuhao，bufenxingyeyebijiaozhuanqian，suoyixianghuiguofazhan。”zheishiyutonglejiedaodehuiliuyuanyin。

danwomenyujiweiyimindezhongchanliaoguohoufaxian，jiaoyuheshiyezhishibiaomian，zhenzhenggouqixiangchoude，kenengshiyiminhoudeshiluoyubugan。

chuleguocaizhidao，cbdbailingyuanlaizhinengdangjiudianfuwuyuan，yigeyuedianfeihuishaodiao5000yuan，huaxuekekenengshikanyixueqidianying，erzaiyaohaodewaiguopengyou，yehuixiaozhewenniquzhongguoxubuxuyao“mimiyan”。

erdengnimopinglengjiaoshiyinglehaiwaishenghuo，moranhuishou，kandaoguoneipengyouzhengzhengrishang，zijifanerzouqilexiapolu。

zongzhiruguoneixinbugouqiangda，ruguozichanbugoufenghou，zhongchanyiminhenyoukenengchengweilingrenhouhuidexuanze。

一、北京七套房，羡慕海外一张床

zhaohuideqinyoumentingdaotayaoyimindexiaoxi，doujuedetadenaozibeimenjiale。

“duoshaorenxianmunimenxianzaideshenghuo。”zheishiqinyoumenquanzuzhaohuidehua，yeshishishi——taheqizinianjiqingqingjiujishenguoqizhongceng，pingshichaojiuwanwu，niandiyinxingkahainengduochusiwushiwan，riziguodeshunfengshunshui。

danwuxuweishengjifachou，buyiweizhemeiyoufannao。

“linglingling……”shenyeshierdian，shuimengzhongdezhaohuifuqibeituruqilaidelingshengjingxing，qizishenxiyikouqi，huadaojietingjian。

laidiandeshitadelingdao，rangtaxieyifenhuibaocailiao，yaoqiucirizaoshangtijiao。

juzhaohuijieshao，qizidanweishi“lingdaoyijuhua，xiashupaoduantui”dedianxing，suoyourenweishangshicong，xialebanyeyaosuishidaiming。xiangzheizhonglingchenbuzhigongzuodejuqing，yijingshangyanguowushucile。

qizijiduxiangyaocizhi，danzheigetiefanwanshijializhengqulaide，yitazishendenengli，genbenwufazaiconglinshijielizhaodaogenghaodegongzuo，zhinengkukujianao。

zhaohuisuiranmeineimejuan，keshimeitianhechakanbaodeshenghuo，rangtajuederenshengyiyanjiuwangdaotoule。

yinci，ouranjianfaxianzijifuheaozhoujishuyimindetiaojianhou，fuqiliangxinlixiangwangyimindezhongzikaishibuduanfengzhang：“yiminhaoxiangnengbayibeizidangliangbeiziguo。”

butongyuzhaohuidetufaqixiang，yutongyijiadeyiminjihuayoulaiyijiu。

congyingguoliuxuehuilaihou，zhangfuyizhiwuxianhuainianzaidabuliediandaoderizi。neishideta，keyixuezijireaidezhuanye，zuozijihaoqideketi，yiyanjiushengdiyimingdechengjibiye。

danhuiguozhihou，luojiquandoubianle。jinrongbenke+lvyoushuoshideziyouzhuanyezuhe，hennanzhaodaoduikougongzuo，shangbaicijianlitoudidoumeilexiawen。xiangyaoyangjiahukou，zhidetoukaoqinqidedianshanggongsi。

dankongjiangchengweiguanliceng，nanmianhuibeirendaizheyouseyanjingkandai。zhangfuyehenpaichizhichangfuzaderenjiguanxi，“taningyuanzaiguowaizuomugong，yebuxiangzaishurengongsidangsuoweideguanliceng。”

yushi，zaizhangfudeqianglieyaoqiuxia，yutongyijiakaishibanliyimin。chenggongnadaofengyekabujiu，tahelianggewajiubeizhangfufengfenghuohuodidaishangfeiji，duandengjianada。

daoleminsu，zhangfuyishoubaozhehenaideerbao，yishoujidabaofanhuiben，zuishanghaibuwangdingzhuyutongduoxiuxi、bielaolei，yuguoneimenmenbuledexingxiangpanruoliangren。

yutongzhidao，tazhengpoqiedizhengmingzijidedandang，rangtaxiangxinyiminhouyijiarenyehuiguodehenhao。

“bierenqianxinwankuquluoma，erwomenjiachushengjiuzailuoma。”laobeijingrensangderucipingjiazijideshenghuo。

congxiaozaibeijingdayuanlizhangda，zuoyongbeijing7taofangchan，sangdedeshenghuokanqilaihaowuyali，dangangxuziyuandeburuyi，rangtapinpinshanxianlikaideniantou。

“xianzaihaikanbuchulaihaizishishenmewenti，nindaihaiziquzuoyigenaojiyechuancijianchaba，yiliaofeidagaishi10wankuai。”

daidaerzikanyigexiaomaobing，yishengyishanglaijiukaichu“hairentingwen”dejianchafangshi，tabuganmaoxian，zhaoleyiweizhongyipengyouqiuzhen，jieguozhishiduodongzheng，zhenjiupeiheanshendezhongyaojiukeyizhiliao。sangdesonglekouqi，qingxingmeiranghaizishounaojiyechuancidezui。

danzheiyuanyuanbushijieshu。xiaoerziyinzhuishengzhiqiuyi，dankanbingchichiguabushanghao。jiaojidesangdehaoburongyiguashang400kuaidezhuanjiahao，zhuanjiagaosuta，zheizhongxiaoshoushumenzhenjiukeyizuo，meibiyaoguazhuanjiahao。

ranerdaolemenzhen，tayoubeigaozhi，shoushuyaoquanshenmazuizhuyuan，qiejiazhangbunengpeitong。bishihaizicaiyisuiduo，sangdeshizaiwufafangxin，piqiuyoubeimenzhenyishengbunaifanditidaolezhuanjiayishineili。

erzhuanjiadehuida，rangtadadieyanjing：“yaozuoyekeyi，quduimiansirenyiyuanjiaogehongbao，wojiukeyibangni。”

zheijianshizhihou，xinhuiyilengdesangdejiakuaileyiminjincheng，touyebuhuidibenzhexiongyalideyongjuqule。

tayewubiqingxingzijidejueding：zaiguoneilaihuitilejicipiqiudeshoushu，daoxiongyalizhihualejixiaoshi，shuayibaoyifenqianmeihuajiujiejuelewenti。

dangran，yiminsuiranbaituolejiudeguiji，dantongshiyeyiweizhe，xuyaorongruxindehuanjing。

二、老外的松弛感，终究是舶来品

bangwan6dian，xiaoyingtuikaichuanghu，tiankongyijingruwuyebanqihei，jiedaoshangyigexingrendoumeiyou，wanlaijuji。

nuoweidedongjiheiyemanzhang，zaoshang10diantiancaimengmengliang，xiawu3dianjiudaolehuanghunshike，erzheiyangderiziyaochixudabannian。

“taimanzhangle，ganjueyitianzenmeyeguobuwan。”xiaoyingshuo，“niyaoshizaiguoneisidianbanxiaban，neiniketaizhidaogaiganmale。danshizaizheili，xiabanzaizaonizhiyenenghuijiatangzhe。”

danjiusuanshizaiyouzhemingmeitianqidenanouguojiaxibanya，yiminshenghuoyeweibijiuyangguangcanlan。

gangluodixibanyawalunxiyadeshihou，liyajianzhibuganxiangxinzijideyanjing：yichuangchuangloufangkanqilaihuijiu、pobai，qiangshangbaoluzhedianhuaxian，dianxianyituoyituodizaidishangluanrengzhe，zhayikanhaiyiweihuidaoleshangshiji90niandaidezhongguo。

“tingzhi”shixibanyazheixieniandaijitazuidadeganshouzhiyi，shizhijinrixibanyarenduizhongguodeyinxianghaitingliuzailuohouniandai。liyafaxian，xibanyadianshitaibofangzhongguoxinwenshi，peideyiranshihuangtunininglaoshangou，renmenduanzhefanwandunzaidishangchifandehuamian。

xuduodangdirenduizhongguodepingjia，jiushi“buzhideyiqudedisanshijieguojia”。dantandaoxibanya，guanjiancijiubianchenglezihaode“chudairibuluodiguo”“dizhonghaidemingzhu”。

ershijishang，tasuojieshidexibanyapengyou，shenghuojiandanersongchi：meitianzhongfutongyangdehuodong，xiaofeitongyangdeshangpin，shenghuoxintiaojiushi“jinchaoyoujiujinchaozui”，zhiyaoyoutaiyangshai，youpijiuhe，youhaibiantangjiuwanshidaji。

“tamenyichengbubiandaokepa。”liyashuo，duicongxiaobeijiaoyuyaoqinfen、jijixiangshang，zonghuixiangyaobariziguodegenghao、nulizhengqiandetalaishuo，xibanyadechihuanrangrenwusuoshicong。

“zaizheili，dengkuaidishiyizhongzhemo，yinweiniyongyuandoubuzhidaokuaidiyuanshenmeshihoulai。”youyici，liyaxiangjiyigejijian，yuanbenshi24xiaoshiqujian，dankuaidiyuanbujianzongying。

dengdaodisantian，kuaidiyuanzhongyushangmenle，liyajingyadiwenta，“nizhidaoqukuaidideshijianshiliangtianqianma？”duifanglizhiqizhuangdishuo，“zhidaoa，danwoneitianmeikong。”

leisideshiqingfashenglewushuci：nianyefandianlegewaimai，2gexiaoshilefandoumeisonglai；bugeyachi，yayihuiyinweiheqitayishengliaotianerbucuo。

xiguanleyouguijucaichengfangyuandeliya，meicipengshangzheixielipudeshiqing，doujuedezijigegeburu。xiangbisuixingdexibanya，yimindaoruidiandefeifeiyijia，yikaishixingyundiganshoudaolebeizunzhong。

feifeidezhangfuzaishoudaooffershi，jingyadifaxianruidiangongsijizijikailezuigaoqiwangxinzi。hrgaosuta，“nishuoguoanzhaozuidiqiwangxinzidehuanihuikaolv，danwomenzhenchengdixiwangninengjiaru，erbujinjinshikaolv。”

dantamenmeixiangdaodeshi，gongsiguodudebaohuyekenengdailaifuxiaoying。

“woshengbingle，jintianbunengqugongzuo，xiangqingyixiajia。”xinyuangongkaigongdiyitian，feifeidezhangfujiushoudaoleduifangdeyoujian。tameitaidanghuishijiuzhunjiale，danduifangyibingjiushiyigexingqi。

“woyoujingshenyali，yishengshuowoxuyao3geyuedejiaqi”“yinweishentiyuanyin，womeitiankenengzhinenggongzuo2xiaoshi”“baoqian，wodeshuimianbuhao，jintiankongpawufagongzuole”……

dangzheiyangdeyoujianzaijiexialaidebannianlifenzhitalaishi，feifeidezhangfuzhinengzaiwunaizhixiachengdanqizheiweinvshidegongzuo。

“ruidiandefalvhenzhuzhongbaohulaodongzhedequanyi，gongsibunengsuiyicaiyuan。”feifeigandaohenwunai，“danzheiyangduiqitadetongshibingbugongping。”

bujinruci，gaofulijiuxiangmingyunkuizengdeliwu，wangwangdouzaianzhongbiaohaolejiage。

三、从移民开始，人生走起了下坡路

kuangquanshuiyiping25yuan，pijiuyiping60yuan，zuibianyidefanguanyederenjun200kuai……napayijingzainuoweishiyunianle，xiaoyinghaishishibushijiuhuibeizheilidewujiabeici，“wofaxianbaguoneidongxidejiagezaijiayige0，jiunengbianchengnuoweidewujia。”

zaiguoneishibiaozhunyixianzhongchandeta，zenmeyebuhuixiangdao，zijijingranhuiyouyitianbeidongtiangaoangdequnuanfeibidexuehuishaochaihuo。

“nuoweishikaodianqunuande，womenjiafangzixiao，dongtianyigeyuededianfeiyeyou5000kuai，neixiefangzidadiande，dianfeiyigeyue1wanxiaoyisi。”

weileshengqian，xiaoyingzhuanmenzhaodangdidenongminmaichaihuo，1000kuaidemutounengzaibilulitingdabangedongtian。

yimindaoxibanyadeliya，gengshiyanzhengzhengdikanzhecunkuanyi8beidesuduliushi。meixueqijinvershangqianouyuandeshubenfei、xiaochefei、xiaofufeimaidandeshihou，tadoujuedexiaobuchulai。

2012nianqianwangxibanyadeshihou，liyaquanjiashi“feiyingliyimin”deshenfen，zheiyiweizhetamenzhinengzaixibanyaxiaofeihejuzhu，bunengjiuyehezhuanqian，“qishizaiqian5nianhelvyouqianzhengmeiyoutaidadechabie。”

denghaoburongyijixibanyazuoman5niangongxian，nadaoleyongjuzige，liyaquefaxian，zaidangdigenbenzhaobudaozijideweizhi。

“xibanyadegaoduanchanyefengmaolinjiao，jiusuanyouyeshiliujibendiren，nenggoujidaoyiminde，jiushixiwan、chushi、paotang、maiyifuzheixielandajiedegongzuo。”

jiulianchuangyeyeshichuchupengbi。“shejigelogobujiulianggezima，zenmehuizhi300ou？”tingzhefandianjingliwuqingdejujue，feijingjieshilebantiandeliyafufu，zhidezhuanshenlikai。

congqianzaishanghai，liyadezhangfuyouzhezijideguanggaogongsi，dabadepingmiansheji、sheyingshexiangdedanzizhudongzhaoshangmen。liyazaipinpaigongsideshichangbumenrenzhi，zuoweicongmingyouwaixiangdeshanghaixiaonan，zaiquanliyepochidekai。

chuguoqian，fufuerrendexiangxianghenmeihao，“pingzhetounaohenulizongnenglizu”。danshouruguilingdexianshijisuiletamendeyiqiehuanxiang。

liyajuexinfangxiashenduan，takandaoyouhuashangkaidedaxingshipindiancangkuquzhaoguanliyuan，suiranzaojiutingshuozheifengongzuoyizhougongzuo6tian、meitiangongzuo10xiaoshiyishang，liyahaishidaledianhua。

dianhuaneitouwenta，“xiaomeinaliren？womenyaokankanshibushitongxiang，haozhaoguyidian。”tingdaotashishanghairenzhihou，duifangdeyudiaoshashibiandeweimiaoqilai，“o——shanghairenhaoxiangchibuqikua。”

qidetadangchangguaduandianhua，“tamenzheixieminshang、zheshangzaizheilibaotuan，budaiwairenwande。”

gengtongkudeshi，meicihuiguo，hepengyoumenjucan、liaotiandeshihou，liyadouhuishenshendihuaiyi，zijiyimindejuedingshibushizuocuole。

cengjingshichangbudetongshi，caishanglezhibodianshangdefengkou，nianrubaiwan；yeyoulaotongxuezaitizhineigongzuowending，shengzhijiaxin，rizipingdanerxingfu。

kanzhepengyoumenfenxiangzhezijideshenghuo，youshitayehuihuanxiang，dangnianyaoshiliuzaishanghaidehuahuishishenmeyang，“yinggaihuiyouyifennengshixianjiazhidegongzuo，womenlianggerenhuinulizhuanqian，zaishanghaidezichandoujihaiziliuzhe，dengtazhangdazaisongtachuguoliuxue。”

danxianzai，tayijingcuoguolefazhandehuangjinshiqi，zhiyeshengyabujinfantui，zichanyezaibutingdisuoshui。

pengyoumenanweita，“nichuguoshiweilenverdejiaoyu，zhishaoxianzaihaizitebiekuaile，shuomingnidexinxuemeiyoubaifei。”

liyazhinengkuxiao，baxibanyadejiaoyudangzuoxiaohuajiang，“youweipengyoudenverzaixibanyashixueba，houlaiyouqumeiguodushu，shuxuebeipandingweilingjichu，yaocongtouxueqi，pengyoudebizidouchadianqiwaile。”

liyanvershangdeguojixuexiao，jiaoyuzhiliangyeyiyannanjin。nverjinnianyijingshichusanbiyeban，huaxuelaoshizaiketangshangfanglezhengzhengyixueqidedianying；shuxuelaoshijiyigeanlirangchaoxie，nvermeikandongxiangwenlaoshi，laoshihuiyingdao，“zheinidoubuhui？zijiquxiang，niyaoxuehuizixue。”

chule“kuaile”，liyabuganzaiduixibanyadejiaoyubaoyoushenmeqiwang，“anzhao1：7dehuilvhuazheqian，quedebudaotongdengdejiazhi。”

liyaxianzaimeitiandoubaizheshouzhitousuanrizi，niantaozhedenghaizizhangda，tajiuhexianshenghuidaoshanghaishenghuo。dankanzheliulidijiangzhexiyu，hexibanyapengyoumenwannaozaiyiqidenver，zuoweimuqindetaxinliwuweizachen。

“woyihoudangranyaodaizaixibanya，wosuoyoudepengyoudouzaizheilia。”nvershuo。

liyamingbai，zaizuochuyimindejuedingdeneiyike，jiuyijingmaixialeyikemingjiaofenlidezhongzi。

（文中人物均为化名，特别鸣谢小红书博主“小英（Xiao Ying）”“Sándor”的支持。）