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缺人的养老行业,迷茫的护理专科生

danghulibuzaixuyaozhuankesheng。

wen | wuhuanwaioutside yangquan

bianji | chemaomao

“dazhuanbiye,chulehulihainengganshenmegongzuo?”

2024nian3yue,jiaoyubujianghulixuediaozhengweiguojiakongzhibudianzhuanye(jiancheng“guokongzhuanye”),zheiyiweizheguojiajiangjinyibutigaohulixuedejiaoxuezhiliang,weiqifazhantigonggengyouzhideziyuanpeizhi,weilaihulixuezhuanyedebanxuemenjianhuizhubutigao,xiangyingdezhaoshengrenshuyehuisuizhixiajiang。

tongshiyeyushizhe,shuyuhulizhuankeshengdexuanzezhengzaijianshao——buzhishigedayuanxiaozhuanshengbenzhaoshengmingededafusuojian,gengweizhiguandeshisanjiayiyuandezhaopinqishishang,hushigangweidezuidimenjiandouyaoquanrizhibenkebiye。

jiezhi2023nianmo,quanguo65zhousuijiyishangdelaonianrenkoushuliangzhanzongrenkoude15.4%,yushangyinianxiangbizengzhanglejin698wanren。laolinghuadejiaju,zaiyidingchengdushangjiadaleduihulidexuqiu。raner,jutongjiquanguoyihubijinwei1:18,haiyuanyuandabudaohushishuliangyingweiyishengshuliangliangbeiyishangdeyaoqiu。

yibianshiquanguojiejin400wandehushiquekou,lingyibianqueshiyuelaiyuenanzhaogongzuodezhuankesheng。jintuiliangnandechujing,chenglexianrujinkunzaiqiuzhishichanglihulizhuankeshengdesuoying:renrendoushuojinlaijiuhouhuidehushi,yipiyouyipidiyixueliweidazhuandenianqingrenquebeidangzaileyiyuanmenwai。shouxianyuxuelidehulisheng,zhengbeipozaimimangzhongxunzhaoxindechulu。

护理专科生,被困在第一学历里

“dazhuanxueli,jianzhikuaichengleworenshengdeandi!”

dangdiankaidiwujiayiyuandezhaopingonggao,faxiangangweibiaoyijiucongtoudaoweidoumeiyouyigezhaodazhuanxuelidehushigangshi,xiangkuqueyoukubuchulaideluhuimin,zhinengwunaidibashoujidiuxiangzhentouyibian,shituyongbeizimengzhutoutaolibiyedaoxianzaihaimeizhaodaogongzuodexianshi。

kanzhaopingonggao,diankaigangweibiao,zaijuewangdituichu,yijingchengleluhuiminjinbannianderichang。zhaogongzuodezheiduanshijianli,yixinxiangyaoquyiyuanshangbandetadouhuaiyizijishibushiwuyijianchufanletiantiao——zenmebiyeqiandouzaishuohushigangqueren,biyehouyiyuanquesihudoubuzhaodazhuanxuelidehushile。 

xueliyaoqiuquanrizhibenkejiyishang,yijingchenglesanjiayiyuanzhaopindechangtai。

kanzheyigeyouyigeshiqusanjiayiyuandezhaopingonggao,xuelishouxiandeluhuiminzhinengbamuguangluoxianghaizaizhaodazhuanxuelihushidexianyiyuan。biyehouhaimeizhaodaogongzuodejiaolv,rangluhuiminyiyoukongjiunaqishoujikanyoumeiyouxindeyiyuanzhaopingonggao,shengpayinweishuhuercuoguokaoshidejihui。

yibianbeikaoyibianshuaxingangwei,zhongyurangluhuiminpengdaolegedazhuanxuelikebaodehushigang。zaoshangyiyuancaifadezhaopinxinxi,zhongwutajiubabaomingxuyaoyongdaodeziliaosaomiaojiandabaofadaolezhidingdeyouxiang。mianduizheilaizhibuyidejihui,luhuiminxiadingjuexinyaohaohaobawo。

buguo,baozheshanganjuexindezhuankebiyeshengyuanbuzhitayige。

baomingshijianjiezhi,zhizhao18rendexianyiyuanhushigangjiuyou400duorenbaoming。xiangdaoyaoheneimeduorenjingzhengtongyigegangwei,diyicicanjiakaoshideluhuiminchulechifanshangcesuojiushizuozaishuzhuoqianshuatibeikao,jihukuaibazijidingzailewoshiyizishang。

gaoqiangdudeshuatirangluhuiminganghaokajinlemianshi。benyiweijulishanganzhiyouyibuzhiyaodeta,quezaimianshishijinzhangdaodanaoyipiankongbai,kekebabadidawanlequanbuwenti。mianshijieshu,congyiyuanzouhuijiadelushangluhuiminbuganxindijieshoulepeipaodexianshi。

kaowanhuiqudedangtianwanshang,luhuiminyoubazijidingzailewoshideyizishang,yibiancayanleiyibianshuaxinshoujikanhaiyoumeiyoubiedeyiyuankeyibaokao,jixubaquanbushijianhejinglitourudaoxiayicideshanganhaoduzhizhong。

zheijiangjinbanniandeshijianli,luhuiminyikandaoyoufuheyaoqiudegangweijiuqubaokao,danqueyuekaoyuemeiyouxinxin。jieerliansanzaimianshizhongbeishua,rangtaxianruleshenshendeziwohuaiyi,jiusuanbishiguoleyehuibuyouzizhudixiangzheicishibushiyoudepeipao,shenzhiyoushihoumengdaozijizaiyiyuanmianshidouhuibeihechuyishenlenghan。

“gangweilangduoroushao,jibaishangqianderenjiuzhiluquzuiyouxiudeneijige。”

zhidaodiwucidebaokaoyishibaigaozhong,luhuiminyihuidaojiajiubengkuidibashuzhuoshangdeziliaohebijiquanbusaodaoledishang。beikaodejudayalibujinchenggongbaluhuiminyakuale,yemanyandaolekanzhenveryiciyouyicishibaidefumushenshang。

zicongbiyehoudaizaijialibeikao,fumujiukaishiyouyiwuyidizaifanzhuoshangtiqipengyoujiadexiaohaikaodagonggangtileche,linjujiadeerzikaogongshanganle。hualihuawaideyisi,doushiquanluhuiminganjinhuantiaogengyouxiwangdelu。tingzhefumurifuyiridelaotao,xianzaideluhuiminmeiyouxiangzhiqianyiyangfanzaodingzui,zhishichenmobuyudiditouchizhefan。

huixiangqidushushi,dajijiedexuezhangxuejiezhiyaonengshunlibiye,dounengshunlizhaodaobucuodegongzuo,fanguantazijiquebiyejishiye。rujinmianduidongzhejibaishangqianrenjingzhengdegangwei,yizhikaoqueyizhimeikaoshangdeluhuiminyeshizaishimeiyouxinxinhejinglikaishidiliucibeikaole。

danshenghuoyijiuzaijixu,yuqigantanshengbufengshi,chedifangqikaoyiyuandeluhuiminjuedingnazhejianliguangsawang,ganjinrangshenxinhuidaozhenggui——wulunshishiyanglaoyuanhaishiyimei,zhiyaoyourenyaojiuqu,yaoshizaiguonianqianhaizhaobudaogongzuo,zhijiejinchangdouxing。

累到崩溃,但却不敢辞职

hushizheifengongzuoduiyujiangnaneryan,zhiyoukaoshangdeneiyikeshizhenzhengkaixinde。

yichuanshanghushifu,jiangnanjuedezijijiuxiangbeiningjinfatiaodejiqi,xuyaoyikebutingdifengkuangchuansuozaigegebingfangzhijian。yiyuanrenshoudeyanzhongbuzu,daozhijiangnanyiruzhijiubeidangchenglianggerenyong:dandanshiweiquanbubingrenshuye、fayao、chouxue、quxue,yilunxialaijiudejiangjinlianggexiaoshi。

“shangbandemeiyifenzhong,doumangdexianglianzhouzhuandetuoluo!”

fansuoqiegaoqiangdudegongzuo,rangjiangnanmeitianmangdejiaobuzhandi,yizhengtianzaiyiyuanzoudebushushenzhibiqutezhongbinglvyoudepengyouhaiduo。dangpengshangbingrenbaozengdeshihou,tajiulianhuishoujixinxidouxuyaochenzheshangcesuocaiyouxiekongxianshijianhui,yezhiyouzailinjinhuanbandeshihoucainenghetongshizuoxialaishaoweixiuxiyihui。 

dan,zuirangjiangnanshoubuledebushixunchabingfangderichanggongzuo,shimingmingyijingleidebansibuhuo,quehaishizailinjinxiabanshishoudaokaihuitongzhi。xiangdaoqingjiabujinyaobeiwendongwenxihaikenengyaoaima,jiusuanzaibuqingyuanbashijianhejinglilangfeizheixiedongxishang,jiangnanyezhinengzuozaihuiyishilimianjiazhuangrenzhentingjiang。

zicongruzhiyilai,jiangnanjiumeiyouzhenzhengyiyishangdehaohaoxiuxiguo:chulezuohaobenzhigongzuowai,haidewuchanggongxianchuzijidexiuxishijian。shubuqingdejiaban,bujianxiedepeixunkaihuiyukaoshi,jibianshizaixiuxiyexuyaohuifudeyiduiqunxiaoxi,dourangjiangnanjuedegongzuoyushenghuozhijiandebianjiexianyuelaiyuemohubuqing。

dangrongzhangdehuiyizhongyujieshu,jiangnanhuidaojiaxishuwanbiyijiejinshierdian。

meimeizaichuangshangfanlaifuqushuibuzhe,jiangnanzongshihuixiangqidushushiyiweihushizhiyaoshangbanshidanghaojiusifushangdebaiyitianshi,xiabanhoudexiuxishijianjiunengxiangganshajiuganshadetianzhenhuanxiang。xianzaidetazaoyibuzaikeqiuwanquanshuyuzijidexiuxishijian,zhixiwangmingtianqudaoyiyuannengbieneimemang,qianpianyilvdepeixunkaihuiyukaoshinengshaoyidiandian。

zaijiangnankanlai,hushizheifengongzuochulerangshentijiankangchaofuhewai,yerangqingxubengkuichengleyizhongshechi。

 

zaibushaorenshouzhebingtongdehuanzhejiqijiashuyanli,hushibujinshisuijiaosuidaode“fuwuyuan”,yeshixuyaowutiaojianrenshoutamenbumandechuqitong。jiusuanyijingjieshouguojibaishangqiandehuanzhe,danjiangnanzoujinbingfangmianduineixieduoduobirendehuanzhejiashu,shuyehuanyaoshixinlihaishihuibuzijuedifachu。

jiuzaishanggeyue,jiangnanxuyaojiyiweinianjijiaodadepopozhazhenshuye,danhaimeiwanquanzhajinqulaopopojiukaishidahandajiao。erpangbiandejiashulimajiuzhizhejiangnanpitougailianyidunma,yaobushiyoutongshilanleyixia,neibazhangjiuzhongzhongluodaotashenshangle。

zairenshaohuoduodeyiyuanli,hushideqingxubengkuishenzhidoububeiyunxu。suoyi,gangtaoguoyijiedejiangnanhaimeilaidejineihao,jiuyoukaishiyikebutingdizaiyiyuanzoulanghebingfangzhijianchuansuo。

mianduiwuchangkaihuijiaban、beihuanzhezhizhebizima、shentiyitianbiyitiancha,jiangnanbuzhiyicixiangguozhijiecizhi。danzheigeniantouhaimeichixuyitian,dazhuanbiyedetakanzhehaoburongyikaolaidegongzuojiuyouxianruleyouyu——zhaopinmenjianpubiandoutigaodaobenkejiyishang,xianzaicizhihennanzhaodaobizheijiagenghaodeyiyuan。

erdangtingdaoyouyimingtongshiyinweishizaishoubuleyiyuandemangliuxuanzelizhishi,jiangnanyibianduitongshijijiangkaishixinderenshengdexianmu,erlingyibianshitanxichulehulishenmeyebushanzhangdeziji,zhinengjixujuanzaibuzhiheshishitoudeyiyuanjixiao,juanzaibishangbuzubixiayouyudehushigongzuoli。

放弃护理后的第二人生

laoshi、hushi、gongwuyuan,keyishuoshijiazhangyanzhongjiuyezuihaodesandatiefanwan。

zainingshengjialirendeguyouguannianli,xuelehulijiuxiangdangyuyoulegeshouruwendingbuyongfengchuirishaidetiefanwan。zainingshengzhongkaochengjichulaideneiyike,likedeyanzhongpiankezhudingletajiangyupugaoshizhijiaobei,yerangtabitonglingrengengzaodimianduirenshengdediyigefenchalukou——weilaideludaodigaiwangnalizou?

xiangbiqiningshengzhanzaifenchalukouqiandeyouyubujue,jializhangbeiquedouyizhirenweinvhaizizuihaojiuqudanggehushi,fenfenjianyitaquzhongzhuandugehuli。suirandangshideningshengduiweilaiyijiuyipianmimang,dantayeqingchudizhidao,zaishengxuedezheijiandashishang,zijihejialirenzongdeyouyifangshimanyide。

jiuzheiyang,zaijialirendequanshuozhixia,ningshengxuanzequlezhongzhuan,kaishileduhulideliunian。

huixiangqixuehulideliunianshijian,ningshengzhijuedezijidiaojinlemingwei“kaoshi”dewudidong。congzhongzhuanshibianshixibianzhunbeihushizhiyezigekaoshi,daozhongzhuanzuihouyinianbeizhanzhijiaogaokao,zaidaoshengrudazhuanhoudasuanzhuanshengben。zheibuzhangbuduandeliunianshijianli,ningshengbushizaikanshujiushizaiquyiyuanshixidelushang。

kaowanhushizhiyezigekaoshihezhijiaogaokao,ningshengruyuankaorutongshengdeyisuodazhuanyuanxiao。congzhongzhuanshunlishengdaodazhuan,dangshihaichenjinzaixuelitishenghoubiyejiunenggenghaozhaogongzuodeningsheng,genbenxiangbudaozijiweilaihuifangqihuli,xuanzeyigehehulibaganzidabuzhedegongzuo。

erzheiyiqiedezhuanzhedian,doufashengzainingshengdaerxiaquwaishengyiyuanshixiqijian。zuoweishixishengdeningsheng,xuyaogenzhezhengshihushiyiyangsanbandao,bujinyifengongzimeiyou,haidedaotieshixifei。

yinweinianqing,ningshengheqitashixishengchangchangbeiwaipaidaojuminquzuohesuan。zaoshangtianhaimeiliangjiudezuoshangcheqianwangjuminqudehesuandian,yitianxialaibachaimianqian、kaishijiping、xiaodudeliuchengzhongfujiqianshangwanbian,dengdaoquanbugongzuojieshuhuidaozhuchuwangwangyishishenye。

guanyuzheiduanteshushiqidejingli,ningshengxinliyijiuhuiweizijidanqihushidezhizeerzihao,dangengduodequeshishixishishubuqingdeweiquyuwunai:xiaopengyouhesuanxuyaozhongcaiquebeibunaifandejiazhangmabuzhuanye、renzhengongzuoquandoubeihuanzhedangchenglisuodangran、shichangyaobeibaiyitianshijiusifushangdebiaoqiandaodebangjia……

chongmanaishengtanqideshixijieshu,yijingxuelejiejinwunianhulideningsheng,caifajuezijibingmeiyouneimereaihulizheigexingye——wulunshiwuliqunaodebingrenhaishisanbandaodeshijian,dourangningshengduizheiyiyanwangdaotouderenshenggandaojuewang。

renqingzijineixindexuanzehou,qianbanshengdouyinweijialirendeqidaihuozhedeningsheng,kaishixiangyaozhenzhengweizijizuoyicixuanze,weizijihuoyici。dezhizhuanshengbenkaoshiluobanghou,ningshengjiulazhexinglixianglikaishenghuoleershiduoniandehunan,zhishenyirenqudaobeijingcongxuetukaishixuehongbei。

xuexixihuandehongbeihou,meitianduishangbandouyouxindeqidai“zheigejueding,chedigaibianlewoderensheng。”

suiranzaibeijingdeshenghuoyalibiyiwangfanlejibei,danshimeitianzhiyaoyizoujindianliwendaomianbaodexiangqi,ningshengjiuganjuezijijiaozaodeqingxubeihuanhuanfuping,zaiwanshangbidiandayanghourengduimingtiandeshenghuochongmanqidai。erzheixie,doushizaitaxuehulishicongmeiyouguodeganshou。

xianzaideningshengzaiyijiahongbeidiandangdianzhang,tongshiyezaimanmanchoubeikaiyijiashuyuzijidehongbeidian,zhunbeizaishiyexiaoyouqisehouzaigaosujialirenjiusuanlikaihulitiefanwanzijiderenshengyenengguodeshifenjingcai。

zainingshengneiyijiedehulidazhuanshenglimian,zhiyoutayigezaibiyehoujiuchedifangqilehulixingye,xuanzelehehuliwanquanbuzhanbiandehongbei。dan,xiangbiqihaizaicongshihulixiangguangongzuodepengyoumen,ningshengyijiuqingxingzijiyouyongqizaidangshizuochuconghulizhuanxingdexuanze,zhaodaozijizhenzhengxihuandeshiqing。

结语

bishangbuzubixiayouyudehuli,zaoyibuzaishicongqianneigehaojiuyedetiefanwan。

dangqiuzhishichangzoujin“dazhuanyaoxueli,benkeyaojishu,shuoshiyaojingyan”deguaiquan,bujinjinshiyipiyouyipidedazhuanshengbiyejishiye,jiulianbenshuoshengzhijiandejingzhengyeyufajilie,yigangnanqiu。tishengxuelidesudu,haoxiangyongyuanganbushangyiyuantigaomenjiandesudu。

dang#hushiquekouda#decitiaoyiciyouyicichuxianzairesou,hushirichanggongzuozhongdekuyuleicaihuibeigengduorenzhidao。buguo,zheixiexuyaobeiqingtingdebengkuishunjiansihuyeshizhitingliuzairesoucitiao,hushidezhenshichujingbingmeiyourenhegaibian——haimeishangandeyijiupinlemingxiangjinqu,yishangandemeitianzaibengkuibianyuanquebugancizhi。

suizhehulixuebeilieruguokongzhuanye,hulizhuankeshengyejiangzaiweilaimanmantuichulishiwutai。erduikunzaihulilidezhuankeshengmeneryan,xiangshangjuanxuelihexiangwaihuangongzuojiuchenglebaizaitamenmianqianxinderenshengfenchalukou。

huoxu,xuanzezhihouweilaihuizaicixianrumimang。dankendingdeshi,maikaijiaobuxiangqianzou,zonghuibidaizaiyuandishouhuogengduoderenshengkenengxing。

 
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缺人的养老行业,迷茫的护理专科生

danghulibuzaixuyaozhuankesheng。

wen | wuhuanwaioutside yangquan

bianji | chemaomao

“dazhuanbiye,chulehulihainengganshenmegongzuo?”

2024nian3yue,jiaoyubujianghulixuediaozhengweiguojiakongzhibudianzhuanye(jiancheng“guokongzhuanye”),zheiyiweizheguojiajiangjinyibutigaohulixuedejiaoxuezhiliang,weiqifazhantigonggengyouzhideziyuanpeizhi,weilaihulixuezhuanyedebanxuemenjianhuizhubutigao,xiangyingdezhaoshengrenshuyehuisuizhixiajiang。

tongshiyeyushizhe,shuyuhulizhuankeshengdexuanzezhengzaijianshao——buzhishigedayuanxiaozhuanshengbenzhaoshengmingededafusuojian,gengweizhiguandeshisanjiayiyuandezhaopinqishishang,hushigangweidezuidimenjiandouyaoquanrizhibenkebiye。

jiezhi2023nianmo,quanguo65zhousuijiyishangdelaonianrenkoushuliangzhanzongrenkoude15.4%,yushangyinianxiangbizengzhanglejin698wanren。laolinghuadejiaju,zaiyidingchengdushangjiadaleduihulidexuqiu。raner,jutongjiquanguoyihubijinwei1:18,haiyuanyuandabudaohushishuliangyingweiyishengshuliangliangbeiyishangdeyaoqiu。

yibianshiquanguojiejin400wandehushiquekou,lingyibianqueshiyuelaiyuenanzhaogongzuodezhuankesheng。jintuiliangnandechujing,chenglexianrujinkunzaiqiuzhishichanglihulizhuankeshengdesuoying:renrendoushuojinlaijiuhouhuidehushi,yipiyouyipidiyixueliweidazhuandenianqingrenquebeidangzaileyiyuanmenwai。shouxianyuxuelidehulisheng,zhengbeipozaimimangzhongxunzhaoxindechulu。

护理专科生,被困在第一学历里

“dazhuanxueli,jianzhikuaichengleworenshengdeandi!”

dangdiankaidiwujiayiyuandezhaopingonggao,faxiangangweibiaoyijiucongtoudaoweidoumeiyouyigezhaodazhuanxuelidehushigangshi,xiangkuqueyoukubuchulaideluhuimin,zhinengwunaidibashoujidiuxiangzhentouyibian,shituyongbeizimengzhutoutaolibiyedaoxianzaihaimeizhaodaogongzuodexianshi。

kanzhaopingonggao,diankaigangweibiao,zaijuewangdituichu,yijingchengleluhuiminjinbannianderichang。zhaogongzuodezheiduanshijianli,yixinxiangyaoquyiyuanshangbandetadouhuaiyizijishibushiwuyijianchufanletiantiao——zenmebiyeqiandouzaishuohushigangqueren,biyehouyiyuanquesihudoubuzhaodazhuanxuelidehushile。 

xueliyaoqiuquanrizhibenkejiyishang,yijingchenglesanjiayiyuanzhaopindechangtai。

kanzheyigeyouyigeshiqusanjiayiyuandezhaopingonggao,xuelishouxiandeluhuiminzhinengbamuguangluoxianghaizaizhaodazhuanxuelihushidexianyiyuan。biyehouhaimeizhaodaogongzuodejiaolv,rangluhuiminyiyoukongjiunaqishoujikanyoumeiyouxindeyiyuanzhaopingonggao,shengpayinweishuhuercuoguokaoshidejihui。

yibianbeikaoyibianshuaxingangwei,zhongyurangluhuiminpengdaolegedazhuanxuelikebaodehushigang。zaoshangyiyuancaifadezhaopinxinxi,zhongwutajiubabaomingxuyaoyongdaodeziliaosaomiaojiandabaofadaolezhidingdeyouxiang。mianduizheilaizhibuyidejihui,luhuiminxiadingjuexinyaohaohaobawo。

buguo,baozheshanganjuexindezhuankebiyeshengyuanbuzhitayige。

baomingshijianjiezhi,zhizhao18rendexianyiyuanhushigangjiuyou400duorenbaoming。xiangdaoyaoheneimeduorenjingzhengtongyigegangwei,diyicicanjiakaoshideluhuiminchulechifanshangcesuojiushizuozaishuzhuoqianshuatibeikao,jihukuaibazijidingzailewoshiyizishang。

gaoqiangdudeshuatirangluhuiminganghaokajinlemianshi。benyiweijulishanganzhiyouyibuzhiyaodeta,quezaimianshishijinzhangdaodanaoyipiankongbai,kekebabadidawanlequanbuwenti。mianshijieshu,congyiyuanzouhuijiadelushangluhuiminbuganxindijieshoulepeipaodexianshi。

kaowanhuiqudedangtianwanshang,luhuiminyoubazijidingzailewoshideyizishang,yibiancayanleiyibianshuaxinshoujikanhaiyoumeiyoubiedeyiyuankeyibaokao,jixubaquanbushijianhejinglitourudaoxiayicideshanganhaoduzhizhong。

zheijiangjinbanniandeshijianli,luhuiminyikandaoyoufuheyaoqiudegangweijiuqubaokao,danqueyuekaoyuemeiyouxinxin。jieerliansanzaimianshizhongbeishua,rangtaxianruleshenshendeziwohuaiyi,jiusuanbishiguoleyehuibuyouzizhudixiangzheicishibushiyoudepeipao,shenzhiyoushihoumengdaozijizaiyiyuanmianshidouhuibeihechuyishenlenghan。

“gangweilangduoroushao,jibaishangqianderenjiuzhiluquzuiyouxiudeneijige。”

zhidaodiwucidebaokaoyishibaigaozhong,luhuiminyihuidaojiajiubengkuidibashuzhuoshangdeziliaohebijiquanbusaodaoledishang。beikaodejudayalibujinchenggongbaluhuiminyakuale,yemanyandaolekanzhenveryiciyouyicishibaidefumushenshang。

zicongbiyehoudaizaijialibeikao,fumujiukaishiyouyiwuyidizaifanzhuoshangtiqipengyoujiadexiaohaikaodagonggangtileche,linjujiadeerzikaogongshanganle。hualihuawaideyisi,doushiquanluhuiminganjinhuantiaogengyouxiwangdelu。tingzhefumurifuyiridelaotao,xianzaideluhuiminmeiyouxiangzhiqianyiyangfanzaodingzui,zhishichenmobuyudiditouchizhefan。

huixiangqidushushi,dajijiedexuezhangxuejiezhiyaonengshunlibiye,dounengshunlizhaodaobucuodegongzuo,fanguantazijiquebiyejishiye。rujinmianduidongzhejibaishangqianrenjingzhengdegangwei,yizhikaoqueyizhimeikaoshangdeluhuiminyeshizaishimeiyouxinxinhejinglikaishidiliucibeikaole。

danshenghuoyijiuzaijixu,yuqigantanshengbufengshi,chedifangqikaoyiyuandeluhuiminjuedingnazhejianliguangsawang,ganjinrangshenxinhuidaozhenggui——wulunshishiyanglaoyuanhaishiyimei,zhiyaoyourenyaojiuqu,yaoshizaiguonianqianhaizhaobudaogongzuo,zhijiejinchangdouxing。

累到崩溃,但却不敢辞职

hushizheifengongzuoduiyujiangnaneryan,zhiyoukaoshangdeneiyikeshizhenzhengkaixinde。

yichuanshanghushifu,jiangnanjuedezijijiuxiangbeiningjinfatiaodejiqi,xuyaoyikebutingdifengkuangchuansuozaigegebingfangzhijian。yiyuanrenshoudeyanzhongbuzu,daozhijiangnanyiruzhijiubeidangchenglianggerenyong:dandanshiweiquanbubingrenshuye、fayao、chouxue、quxue,yilunxialaijiudejiangjinlianggexiaoshi。

“shangbandemeiyifenzhong,doumangdexianglianzhouzhuandetuoluo!”

fansuoqiegaoqiangdudegongzuo,rangjiangnanmeitianmangdejiaobuzhandi,yizhengtianzaiyiyuanzoudebushushenzhibiqutezhongbinglvyoudepengyouhaiduo。dangpengshangbingrenbaozengdeshihou,tajiulianhuishoujixinxidouxuyaochenzheshangcesuocaiyouxiekongxianshijianhui,yezhiyouzailinjinhuanbandeshihoucainenghetongshizuoxialaishaoweixiuxiyihui。 

dan,zuirangjiangnanshoubuledebushixunchabingfangderichanggongzuo,shimingmingyijingleidebansibuhuo,quehaishizailinjinxiabanshishoudaokaihuitongzhi。xiangdaoqingjiabujinyaobeiwendongwenxihaikenengyaoaima,jiusuanzaibuqingyuanbashijianhejinglilangfeizheixiedongxishang,jiangnanyezhinengzuozaihuiyishilimianjiazhuangrenzhentingjiang。

zicongruzhiyilai,jiangnanjiumeiyouzhenzhengyiyishangdehaohaoxiuxiguo:chulezuohaobenzhigongzuowai,haidewuchanggongxianchuzijidexiuxishijian。shubuqingdejiaban,bujianxiedepeixunkaihuiyukaoshi,jibianshizaixiuxiyexuyaohuifudeyiduiqunxiaoxi,dourangjiangnanjuedegongzuoyushenghuozhijiandebianjiexianyuelaiyuemohubuqing。

dangrongzhangdehuiyizhongyujieshu,jiangnanhuidaojiaxishuwanbiyijiejinshierdian。

meimeizaichuangshangfanlaifuqushuibuzhe,jiangnanzongshihuixiangqidushushiyiweihushizhiyaoshangbanshidanghaojiusifushangdebaiyitianshi,xiabanhoudexiuxishijianjiunengxiangganshajiuganshadetianzhenhuanxiang。xianzaidetazaoyibuzaikeqiuwanquanshuyuzijidexiuxishijian,zhixiwangmingtianqudaoyiyuannengbieneimemang,qianpianyilvdepeixunkaihuiyukaoshinengshaoyidiandian。

zaijiangnankanlai,hushizheifengongzuochulerangshentijiankangchaofuhewai,yerangqingxubengkuichengleyizhongshechi。

 

zaibushaorenshouzhebingtongdehuanzhejiqijiashuyanli,hushibujinshisuijiaosuidaode“fuwuyuan”,yeshixuyaowutiaojianrenshoutamenbumandechuqitong。jiusuanyijingjieshouguojibaishangqiandehuanzhe,danjiangnanzoujinbingfangmianduineixieduoduobirendehuanzhejiashu,shuyehuanyaoshixinlihaishihuibuzijuedifachu。

jiuzaishanggeyue,jiangnanxuyaojiyiweinianjijiaodadepopozhazhenshuye,danhaimeiwanquanzhajinqulaopopojiukaishidahandajiao。erpangbiandejiashulimajiuzhizhejiangnanpitougailianyidunma,yaobushiyoutongshilanleyixia,neibazhangjiuzhongzhongluodaotashenshangle。

zairenshaohuoduodeyiyuanli,hushideqingxubengkuishenzhidoububeiyunxu。suoyi,gangtaoguoyijiedejiangnanhaimeilaidejineihao,jiuyoukaishiyikebutingdizaiyiyuanzoulanghebingfangzhijianchuansuo。

mianduiwuchangkaihuijiaban、beihuanzhezhizhebizima、shentiyitianbiyitiancha,jiangnanbuzhiyicixiangguozhijiecizhi。danzheigeniantouhaimeichixuyitian,dazhuanbiyedetakanzhehaoburongyikaolaidegongzuojiuyouxianruleyouyu——zhaopinmenjianpubiandoutigaodaobenkejiyishang,xianzaicizhihennanzhaodaobizheijiagenghaodeyiyuan。

erdangtingdaoyouyimingtongshiyinweishizaishoubuleyiyuandemangliuxuanzelizhishi,jiangnanyibianduitongshijijiangkaishixinderenshengdexianmu,erlingyibianshitanxichulehulishenmeyebushanzhangdeziji,zhinengjixujuanzaibuzhiheshishitoudeyiyuanjixiao,juanzaibishangbuzubixiayouyudehushigongzuoli。

放弃护理后的第二人生

laoshi、hushi、gongwuyuan,keyishuoshijiazhangyanzhongjiuyezuihaodesandatiefanwan。

zainingshengjialirendeguyouguannianli,xuelehulijiuxiangdangyuyoulegeshouruwendingbuyongfengchuirishaidetiefanwan。zainingshengzhongkaochengjichulaideneiyike,likedeyanzhongpiankezhudingletajiangyupugaoshizhijiaobei,yerangtabitonglingrengengzaodimianduirenshengdediyigefenchalukou——weilaideludaodigaiwangnalizou?

xiangbiqiningshengzhanzaifenchalukouqiandeyouyubujue,jializhangbeiquedouyizhirenweinvhaizizuihaojiuqudanggehushi,fenfenjianyitaquzhongzhuandugehuli。suirandangshideningshengduiweilaiyijiuyipianmimang,dantayeqingchudizhidao,zaishengxuedezheijiandashishang,zijihejialirenzongdeyouyifangshimanyide。

jiuzheiyang,zaijialirendequanshuozhixia,ningshengxuanzequlezhongzhuan,kaishileduhulideliunian。

huixiangqixuehulideliunianshijian,ningshengzhijuedezijidiaojinlemingwei“kaoshi”dewudidong。congzhongzhuanshibianshixibianzhunbeihushizhiyezigekaoshi,daozhongzhuanzuihouyinianbeizhanzhijiaogaokao,zaidaoshengrudazhuanhoudasuanzhuanshengben。zheibuzhangbuduandeliunianshijianli,ningshengbushizaikanshujiushizaiquyiyuanshixidelushang。

kaowanhushizhiyezigekaoshihezhijiaogaokao,ningshengruyuankaorutongshengdeyisuodazhuanyuanxiao。congzhongzhuanshunlishengdaodazhuan,dangshihaichenjinzaixuelitishenghoubiyejiunenggenghaozhaogongzuodeningsheng,genbenxiangbudaozijiweilaihuifangqihuli,xuanzeyigehehulibaganzidabuzhedegongzuo。

erzheiyiqiedezhuanzhedian,doufashengzainingshengdaerxiaquwaishengyiyuanshixiqijian。zuoweishixishengdeningsheng,xuyaogenzhezhengshihushiyiyangsanbandao,bujinyifengongzimeiyou,haidedaotieshixifei。

yinweinianqing,ningshengheqitashixishengchangchangbeiwaipaidaojuminquzuohesuan。zaoshangtianhaimeiliangjiudezuoshangcheqianwangjuminqudehesuandian,yitianxialaibachaimianqian、kaishijiping、xiaodudeliuchengzhongfujiqianshangwanbian,dengdaoquanbugongzuojieshuhuidaozhuchuwangwangyishishenye。

guanyuzheiduanteshushiqidejingli,ningshengxinliyijiuhuiweizijidanqihushidezhizeerzihao,dangengduodequeshishixishishubuqingdeweiquyuwunai:xiaopengyouhesuanxuyaozhongcaiquebeibunaifandejiazhangmabuzhuanye、renzhengongzuoquandoubeihuanzhedangchenglisuodangran、shichangyaobeibaiyitianshijiusifushangdebiaoqiandaodebangjia……

chongmanaishengtanqideshixijieshu,yijingxuelejiejinwunianhulideningsheng,caifajuezijibingmeiyouneimereaihulizheigexingye——wulunshiwuliqunaodebingrenhaishisanbandaodeshijian,dourangningshengduizheiyiyanwangdaotouderenshenggandaojuewang。

renqingzijineixindexuanzehou,qianbanshengdouyinweijialirendeqidaihuozhedeningsheng,kaishixiangyaozhenzhengweizijizuoyicixuanze,weizijihuoyici。dezhizhuanshengbenkaoshiluobanghou,ningshengjiulazhexinglixianglikaishenghuoleershiduoniandehunan,zhishenyirenqudaobeijingcongxuetukaishixuehongbei。

xuexixihuandehongbeihou,meitianduishangbandouyouxindeqidai“zheigejueding,chedigaibianlewoderensheng。”

suiranzaibeijingdeshenghuoyalibiyiwangfanlejibei,danshimeitianzhiyaoyizoujindianliwendaomianbaodexiangqi,ningshengjiuganjuezijijiaozaodeqingxubeihuanhuanfuping,zaiwanshangbidiandayanghourengduimingtiandeshenghuochongmanqidai。erzheixie,doushizaitaxuehulishicongmeiyouguodeganshou。

xianzaideningshengzaiyijiahongbeidiandangdianzhang,tongshiyezaimanmanchoubeikaiyijiashuyuzijidehongbeidian,zhunbeizaishiyexiaoyouqisehouzaigaosujialirenjiusuanlikaihulitiefanwanzijiderenshengyenengguodeshifenjingcai。

zainingshengneiyijiedehulidazhuanshenglimian,zhiyoutayigezaibiyehoujiuchedifangqilehulixingye,xuanzelehehuliwanquanbuzhanbiandehongbei。dan,xiangbiqihaizaicongshihulixiangguangongzuodepengyoumen,ningshengyijiuqingxingzijiyouyongqizaidangshizuochuconghulizhuanxingdexuanze,zhaodaozijizhenzhengxihuandeshiqing。

结语

bishangbuzubixiayouyudehuli,zaoyibuzaishicongqianneigehaojiuyedetiefanwan。

dangqiuzhishichangzoujin“dazhuanyaoxueli,benkeyaojishu,shuoshiyaojingyan”deguaiquan,bujinjinshiyipiyouyipidedazhuanshengbiyejishiye,jiulianbenshuoshengzhijiandejingzhengyeyufajilie,yigangnanqiu。tishengxuelidesudu,haoxiangyongyuanganbushangyiyuantigaomenjiandesudu。

dang#hushiquekouda#decitiaoyiciyouyicichuxianzairesou,hushirichanggongzuozhongdekuyuleicaihuibeigengduorenzhidao。buguo,zheixiexuyaobeiqingtingdebengkuishunjiansihuyeshizhitingliuzairesoucitiao,hushidezhenshichujingbingmeiyourenhegaibian——haimeishangandeyijiupinlemingxiangjinqu,yishangandemeitianzaibengkuibianyuanquebugancizhi。

suizhehulixuebeilieruguokongzhuanye,hulizhuankeshengyejiangzaiweilaimanmantuichulishiwutai。erduikunzaihulilidezhuankeshengmeneryan,xiangshangjuanxuelihexiangwaihuangongzuojiuchenglebaizaitamenmianqianxinderenshengfenchalukou。

huoxu,xuanzezhihouweilaihuizaicixianrumimang。dankendingdeshi,maikaijiaobuxiangqianzou,zonghuibidaizaiyuandishouhuogengduoderenshengkenengxing。

 
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