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17000元一张票,追演唱会的中老年人

为青春买单。

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wen | meirirenwushe tianyunmoxiao

bianji | yang xida

运营 | 芋头

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中老年人,追星也疯狂

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二手票务平台上刀郎演唱会的票价。图 / 摩天轮网站截图

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找到情绪的出口

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danzaihenduoshihou,chenchunqindoujuedezijibuzainianqingle:zaizenmejieshi,tizhongdoumeishenmebianhua;zaijianshenfangduanlianleyigeyue,jirouliangyezhangbushangqu,haiyoubutingdituofa,xitoudeshihou,yizhuajiudiaoyiba。

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yinweidaolangyanchanghuierqudaoshamen,shixiaofengdefumudiercikandaodahai。diyicishixiaofengzaibeijingshangdaxueshi,daitamenquleyiciqinhuangdao。zaigulangyudehaitanbian,mamadesijinbeihaifenggaogaochuiqi,babakanxiangzijideqizi,yanlidoushixiaoyi。

zhangxinzheyanchanghuisanchanghou,liuxiaomeiheguimiyiqichiledunhaidilao,lianggerenyibianfanzhegangcailudeshipin,erbianchuanlai:“duisuoyoudefannaoshuobaibai,duisuoyoudekuaileshuohaihai……”chiwanfan,yijingshiwanshangshiyidian,lidaojiahaiyouyigeduoxiaoshidechecheng。buruzhongnianhou,tayijinghenjiumeiyouzheimewanshuile。liuxiaomeizouzaiyekongxia,qingqinghengzhe“bulunjiejushixishibei,zouguoqianshanwanshui”,taxiangqiziji22suidemougelingchen,budayangdeshaokaodian、fangshengdaxiaodepengyou,heneishibuyongzaihuqingxingyufoudemingtian。

(文中访谈人物均为化名)

参考资料:

1.网易号《中老年群体“追星”热:银发经济的新风向》

2.新浪财经《2060年中国65岁以上老人占比超37%,银发社会下,城市经济如何发展?》

3.音乐先声《刀吹们,放过刀郎吧!》

4.凤凰weekly 《刀郎演唱会门票,成了尽孝“硬通货”》

5.封面新闻《3.5万人在成都和谭咏麟大合唱,哪些人在为情怀买单?》

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17000元一张票,追演唱会的中老年人

为青春买单。

图片来源:Pexels-Josh Sorenson

wen | meirirenwushe tianyunmoxiao

bianji | yang xida

运营 | 芋头

daolangdeyanchanghuimenpiao,chengweilexinshidaide“jinxiaoyingtonghuo”,tajietiledongyuhuiheyangshengshipin,chengweigezhongjiatingqunlide“xinjindingliu”。yourenzaifeijinzhouzhebangbabaqiangdaodaolangyanchanghuimenpiaozhihou,zaijiatingliqun,shoudaolelaizibabadeganxie:“jintianlaobazaicishifenganxieniweiwozhengqudaoyizhangbaoguidepiao,zheishiworenshengdiyizhangyanchanghuidepiao,renshengzhidecanjiayicizheiyangdehuodong,xiexie。”

dangran,yeyouzhaoleshijiweipengyoubangmang,quemeiqiangdaopiaode“buxiaozi”beifumuzeguai:“nizijikanliangjingruwuyuetianlinjunjiekandefeiqi,zenmeliangzhangdaolangdouqiangbudao。”ernianqingrenyehenwunai:meirengaosuwodaolangbizhoujielunhainanqianga!rujin,zaishejiaomeitishang,sousuo“jibamaqiangledaolangyanchanghuimenpiao”yijingyouchaoguo48wanpianbiji。

中老年人,追星也疯狂

daolang,shixiaofengjinqicongfumukouzhongtingdaocishuzuiduodemingzi。zaihangzhougongzuodetagenfumuliaotianshi,duihuaneirongcong“gongzuozenmeyang,biezheliangle”dao“daolangheneiyingdebaguawangshi”,zuihoubiancheng“bangwomenqiangqiangdaolangyanchanghuidemenpiao”。

11yue16ribangwan,daolangyanchanghuideshamenchangkaipiao,jihushunjianshouqing。zhuixingdabangjingyanfengfudexiaofeng,dangtianbaituoleqibagerenbangzijiyiqijifumuqiangpiao,jieguoyizhangdoumeiyouqiangdao。

kandaozheigejieguodexiaofengfumu,bamuguangzhuanxiangle“huangniupiao”。nianjin50suidetamen,daizhelaohuajing,zaishoujiqianshoudaolewanshang11dian——paihuaizai4gepiaowupingtai、3geduanshipinpingtai、heweixinli“piaowu09”“aaapiaowuxiaoliu”dexiaoxihongzhazhong。zuizhong,tamendiankailezaojiukanguowushucidemouerjipiaowupingtaiyemian,xiadan,fukuan。yi17000yuanyizhangdejiage,maileliangzhangpiao,yigong34000yuan。

xiaofengbabajide,zijizaizhifuyemiantingliulehenjiu,chichiwufaxiadingjuexin,zuihouhaishizhuazhelaopodeshou,shurulezhifumima——jiazhuangbushizijifude。

jinguanzijiyezhuixing,danxiaofenghaishiduifumuyuanyihuashangsanwanduo,qukandaolangyanchanghuizheijianshigandaozhenjing。xiaofengdefumuyizhizaixinjiangjingyingjiazuqiye,shengyiwending,shouruyesuankeguan,dantamenpingriduichichuanyongdudoubutaijiangjiu,henshaoyoudaexiaofei。zheiyici,qukandaolangyanchanghui,lianggerenchulemenpiaoqian,haiyaozaihuashangyiwanduoyuandejipiao,congkashenfeidaoshamen,zaijiashangzhongjianshisudehuaxiao,zheikenengshitamenzheibeizihuadezuishechideyibiqianle。

zheijinian,zhonglaonianrenjianjianchengweileyanchanghuishichangli,yigebunenghushidequnti。tamendaduochuzaibantuixiuhuozhetuixiudezhuangtai,kongxianshijianchongyu,jiashangyouyidingxiaofeinengli,yuanyiweizijicengjingdeouxiangheshiqudeqingchun,yizhiqianjin。

qizhong,zuiyoudaibiaoxingdejiushidaolang。2024nian,11nianmeiyoukaiyanchanghuidedaolang,guanxuanzhongxinkaiqixunyan,zhuyaochengshiyouchengdou、guangzhou、shamendeng 。xiaoxiyichu,zaidamaiappderesoubangshang,daolangyiyadaoxingyoushiyuejubangshou,chaoyuelezhoujielun、xuezhiqian、dengziqidenggeshou。juyinlexianshengbaodao,daolangyanchanghuinanjingzhandeguanzhonghuaxiangxianshi,60hou、70houdebizhongzhan50%zuoyou,80hou、90houchaoguo30%,95hou、00houjinzhan20%。

12yue10ri,erjipiaowupingtaisousuodaolangdeyanchanghui,hefeichangdegaojia“huangniupiao”haichuzaiquehuozhuangtai。yuyuebeijingchangdeqiangpiao,piaomian680yuandekantaipiao,qianyitianwanshangyaomeizhangjiajia3780yuan,diertianzaoshangjiubiancheng4405yuan——haibuyidingnengqiangdao。

二手票务平台上刀郎演唱会的票价。图 / 摩天轮网站截图

zaixianxiaxunyanzhengshikaishizhiqian,daolangyongtongzhutiyanchanghuixianzaishipinhaoshang,jinxingleyilunshishui。zhengchangyanchugongxiyinle6000wanrenciguankan,dianzanshuchao7yi,dapolezhoujielunbaochideshipinhaozhibojilu。

daolangzuihuodeshidai,shizai2004nian。neijinian,yeshizhongguoyinlede“dadaobanshidai”,menhuwangzhanxingqi,baidutuichulezhuanmendemp3sousuobankuai,renmentinggedequdaojianjiancongshiticdzhuanxiangshuzihua。daolangkeyishuoshidiyipichidaohulianwanghonglidegeshouzhiyi。tadegequxuanlvyishangkou,geciposhizhijie,zaijiashangtadutedesangyin,henkuaijiang《2002niandediyichangxue》changbiandajiexiaoxiang,bingyoucichengweileyidairendegongtongjiyi。

chuledaolang,zhonglaonianrenqinglaidegeshouhaiyoutanyonglin、liudehua、zhangxueyoudengdeng。tanyonglinde《kalayongyuanok》zaidouyinzaicifanhonghou,chengdouchangshoupiaoqingkuangchaochuyuqi,goupiaoguanzhongyue3.5wanren,qizhongnanxingzhanbidadao60%,pingjunnianlingchaoguo40sui。erzai2023nian,tanyonglinshanghaichangyanchanghuishangzuolvjinyou8cheng。

jinnian55suideliuxiaomeishiyijiaguoqidezhongcengganbu,guoqu,takanzhedongzhe899yuan、1299yuandeyanchanghuimenpiao,zongshicongxinlijuedeshebude。“zhiqianliudehualaideshihou,woyegenpengyoutaolunguoyaobuyaomai,danshizhongjuedehuayiqiankuaiqianqutingliangsangexiaoshidege,buhuasuan。”zhidaojinnian9yue,takandaopengyoumenfenxiangdedaolangchengdouyanchanghuideshipin,chongmanlezhenhanhegandong,tajuedingzijiyequshishi。

yushi,jinnian10yuefen,takanlezijirenshengzhongdiyichangyanchanghui,geshoushiliuruoying。congmaipiaohou,liuxiaomeijiukaishibaizheshouzhitoushurizi,jiudengyanchanghuineiyitian。tatiqiancongwangshangzhaodaoguanfangfabudegedan,yishouyishoudixiazaidaoshoujiliting。

zaiyanchanghuixianchang,liuxiaomeikanzhezijiershiduosuishicdlidegeshou,jiuchuxianzaiyanqian,quanchangderengongtongchangqi“houlai,wozongsuanxuehuile,ruhequai”,tashifengankai——guiyouguidedaoli,yanchanghuizhendehenzhi。zaizhihoubudaoyigeyuedeshijianli,tayoujielianqukanlezhangxinzheheliangjingrudeyanchanghui。

heneixiezaisiwushisuicairukengyanchanghuiderenbutong,46suidechenchunqincongnianqingshijiuaikanyanchanghui。buguo,ershiduosuishideta,shoulideqianyouxian,shijianyebufuyu。rujin,caifuyijingxiangduiziyoudechenchunqinshenghuozhongzhiyousanjianshi:gongzuo、haiziheyanchanghui。jinnianyilai,tayijingkanlejiejin20changyanchanghui,guangshizhanghuimeijiukanlesanchang。tayouxiezichaodishuo:“haishidechengrenzijinianlingdale。womenzheigenianjideren,xihuandegeshoujiuhennanyou50suiyixiade。”

chenchunqinxihuanzaiyanchanghuiqianmeimeididabanziji。sanshiduokuaiqian,jiunengzaichangguanfujinhuagezhuang,zaijiashijikuaiqian,haiyoushanzuan、liangpian,zheirangtajuedehenyouyishigan。zhanghuimeideyingyuanseshifenzise,liudehuadeyingyuanseshichengse,tanqizheixie,chenchunqinrushujiazhen。meiqukanyichangyanchanghui,chenchunqinzhishaohuizaipengyouquanfaershitiaoshipin,wanshangshuijueqianhaiyaodiankaizaikan,fanfuhuiwei。

xiaofengfumuqukanyanchanghuideneigewanshang,xiaofengmeigejifenzhong、shijifenzhongjiunengshoudaomamafalaideshipin,jihumeiyishouge,mamadouhenshuxi。shipinli,chuledaolangzhiwai,xiaofengyekandaolebabadeyixiejingtou,“woconglaimeiyoujianguotazheimefengkuang”。

shipinlidebaba,zaixianchangshengsilijiedihouzhe,bingbuzaiyigeshengshifoupaodiao。tagaogaojuzheshoulideyingguangbang,hanzhedaolangdemingzi。anxiazantingjian,xiaofengnengqingxidikandaobabayanlideleiguang。likaideshihou,tamendaizouleyingguangbang,xiaoxindifangjinxinglixiangzhongjian,yongyifuguozhu,daihuilexinjiang——buzhidaojitianhouhaihuibuhuifaguang。

尽孝“硬通货”

tanqizheicifumukanyanchanghuidejingli,xiaofenghaishijuedeyouxiehoupa,“laoshidanxintamenbeipianle”。

zaimamadeweixinliebiaoli,xiaofengkandaohenduomingzishi“piaowu09”“maipiaodd”zhileidelianxiren,tatixingmama:“zheiyikanjiushipianzia,wodingzhegezheiyangdemingziyekeyilaipiannimen。”danmamabanxinbanyi,haishiyizhijianchihetamenliaotianbijia。zuihou,fumuxuanzezaierjipiaowupingtaimaigaojiapiao,xiaofengyequanzuguo:“tahaihuikaihenduochang,woyihouduojiaoxiepengyoubangnimenqiang,huozhebangnimenzhaodaipaiyexing”,shoudaodehuifu,queshijiazuqunliyitiaoyouyitiaodeshipin,zhengmingqiangpiaoyouduonan。

hefumuxiangbi,shenweihulianwangyuanzhumindenianqingren,henrongyifenbianchuqiangpiaoqudaoshifouzhenggui,daipaishifoukaopu。danduiyuneixiediyicitaruyanchanghuidefumulaishuo,zheiyilukenengdoushifengxianhexianjing。

zaishejiaomeitishang,daolangdengshangguo《niuyueshibao》detoutiao,tadegequbeilieruzhongguowenhuayichan,liantaile·siweifutedoufanchangguo《xihaiqingge》……zheixieyaoyan,yibianyibiandichuxianzaizhonglaonianrenmendeshoujishang,ganraozhetamenderenzhihepanduan。

shangdaxuedeshihou,xiaofengyezhuixing,dantazirenyuanyuanmeiyoufumufengkuang,yijialiangsanqiankanyichangyanchanghui,yijingshitanengjieshoudejixian。duiyufumuhuasanwanduomaipiaodexingwei,tatanleyikouqi:“haoba,nengzenmeyangni,yibeiziyejiukanzheimeyici。”

daolangshamenchangyanchanghuizaiwanshangqidiankaishi,daoledangtianxiawusandian,piaowupingtaihaimeiyouchupiao。xiaofengyoudianzheji,yizhizaishejiaomeitisousuo“xxxpingtaimaipiaobeipian”detiezi。danshiduizhefumu,tazhinengbuduananfu。zhongyu,daoleyanchuqianyixiaoshi,piaochule。

buzhishimaipiao,fumuneiyidairenhehulianwangdejiegui,zaihenduoshike,doubusuanliuchang。gaozhongbiyehou,xiaofenglaidaolebeijingshangdaxue,fumuzeliuzaixinjiangzuoshengyi,henshaochuyuanmen,zuiduoyejiuzaifujinzijiayou。daxuesinian,tamendaobeijingkanguoyicixiaofeng,danshibuhuizuoditie,buhuiyongshoujidache,kandaohangzhaoluyejiannan。xiaofenghaijidefumudiyicizuobeijingditiedeshihou,dakailechengchema,quebuzhidaogaifangdaonalishua。neiyiketajuede,fumuhaoxiangzhendelaole。

jiezhezheicidaolangdeyanchanghui,xiaofengyexiwangfumunengzaishamenhaohaowanyiquan。tatiqianbaohaolelvxingtuan,dagaisansitiandexingcheng,tebiedingzhuledaoyouduozhaogu。yanchanghuidangwan,tahaizhuanmendinglechangguanfujindejiudian,fangbiansanchangzhihou,lianggerenjinkuaixiuxi。

hexiaofengyiyang,yongshijixingdongzaizhichifumuqukanyanchanghuidenianqingren,buzaishaoshu 。tidaomaipiao,liuxiaomeihenjiaoaodishuo,yigeyuesanchangyanchanghui,piaodoushierzibangmangqiangde,meiyouduohuazijiyifenqian。

daolangdeyanchanghuimenpiao,chengweilexinshidaide“jinxiaoyingtonghuo”,tajietiledongyuhuiheyangshengshipin,chengweigezhongjiatingqunlide“xinjindingliu”。yourenzaifeijinzhouzhebangbabaqiangdaodaolangyanchanghuimenpiaozhihou,zaijiatingliqun,shoudaolelaizibabadeganxie:“jintianlaobazaicishifenganxieniweiwozhengqudaoyizhangbaoguidepiao,zheishiworenshengdiyizhangyanchanghuidepiao,renshengzhidecanjiayicizheiyangdehuodong,xiexie。”

dangran,yeyouzhaoleshijiweipengyouyiqiqiang,yemeiqiangdaopiaode“buxiaozi”beifumuzeguai:“nizijikanliangjingruwuyuetianlinjunjiekandefeiqi,zenmeliangzhangdaolangdouqiangbudao。”ernianqingrenyehenwunai:meirengaosuwodaolangbizhoujielunhainanqianga!rujin,zaishejiaomeitishang,sousuo“jibamaqiangledaolangyanchanghuimenpiao”yijingyouchaoguo48wanpianbiji。

shishishang,weilenengrangfumuhaowufudandijieshouyanchanghui,nianqingrenmenhaihuixiguanxingde“yajia”。

luxingdemamajinnianliushiduosui,henxihuanfenghuangchuanqi,pingshitiaoguangchangwu,yidao《zuixuanminzufeng》jiugewailaijing。jinnian,luxingdaimamaqukanletarenshengzhongdiyichangfenghuangchuanqideyanchanghui。zaixianchang,mamanazhe“jixiangruyi”deyingguangbang,hesuoyounianqingrenyiqibengdi,shifenxingfen。danmamabuzhidaodeshi,zheiliangzhangpiaoshiluxingjiajialeliangsanqianhou,caimaidaode。duizhemama,luxingshuopiaojiazhiyoujibaikuai,haibeijiaoyu,“xiacibiehuazheimeduoqianle。”

jiusuanweifumumaidaoleyuanjiapiao,shiqingyehuichaozhenianqingrenmenyixiangbudaodefangxiangfazhan。xiaoludefumu,congpengyouneidezhidaolangyaoquaomenkaiyanchanghuidexiaoxi,dingzhuxiaoluyidingjideyaoqiangdaopiao。xingyundeshi,xiaoluyi888yuanyizhangdejiage,weifumuqiangdaoleliangzhangkantaipiao。

yanchanghuidangtian,xiaolufumuhejiweipengyouyuezheyiqicongzhuhaidaoaomen,denglaidaochangguanfujin,faxianzheiliyijingbeiweideshuixiebutong。chuledangwandeguanzhong,haiyouhenduozuilihanzhe“shoupiao”“chupiao”deren。hunluanzhong,xiaoludefumuheyigeshoupiaoderen,dashanglehua,jifanjiaotan,tamenbazijidepiaoyi4000yuanyizhangdejiage,maijileduifang。laoliangkoujingzhuan6000duoyuan,zhijiedadaohuifu,lianfandoumeizaiaomenchi。tongqudepengyou,yebapiaomaidiaole,zhizaichangguanmenkou,kanleyihuicosplaydaolangderen——goule,qingchunshidaideouxiang,nalibideshangweixinqianbaolideyue?

houlai,tamenhaitingshuo,ruguozaiwanbanxiaoshimai,shenzhikeyimaidao7000yuanyizhangdejiage。huidaojiali,xiaolugandaofumuhaishiyoudianhouhuide。youqizaiyicishuadao《2002niandediyichangxue》deduanshipinshi,tamenyibianshuozhe“xiacizaikan,jihuihaiduo”,yibianyoudaxindilihuaiyi,daolangdepiaozheimenanqiang,haiyouxiacima?

找到情绪的出口

zhonglaonianrenqukanyanchanghui,kandeshiyizhongqinghuai。wutaishangjuguangdengxiashanyaode,bujinshinianshaoshixihuandeouxiang,haiyoudangnianqingchundeziji。

yanchanghuijieshuhou,heguimiyiqihuidaojiudianxiezhuang,shichenchunqinzuixingfudeshike。zouguosirongditandezoulang,huidaofangjian,nuanhuangsededengguangxia,zijilianshangdeliangpian、shanzuanyufayaoyan。tachangchanghuizhanzaijingziqianxujiu,kanzhelimianrongguanghuanfadeziji,zuijiaobuzijuedishangyang,haoxianghuidaolecongqiantanlianaideshihou。ershiduonianqian,helianrenyuehuiyitianhouhuijia,zhanzaijingziqian,tayeyoutongyangdebiaoqing。

danzaihenduoshihou,chenchunqindoujuedezijibuzainianqingle:zaizenmejieshi,tizhongdoumeishenmebianhua;zaijianshenfangduanlianleyigeyue,jirouliangyezhangbushangqu,haiyoubutingdituofa,xitoudeshihou,yizhuajiudiaoyiba。

buguozuirangtafannaodehaishijialidesuoshi。chenchunqinyouyieryinv,nverzaijisuxuexiao,erzihaizaishangxiaoxue。tajihuyigerenbaolanlehaizimendadaxiaoxiaodesuoyoushiqing——jiesongshangxue、fudaogongke、anpailvyou……tongshihaideshangbanzhengqian,butiejiayong。mangmangliuliudeshenghuoli,zhishuyuzijideshijianfeichangxishao。gangkanwanyangqianhuayanchanghuideta,lianshangdezhuanghaimeixie,shuozheshuozheyoudianlengzhule:“meibanfa,zheicaishishenghuodezhenxiang。”

chenchunqinjuede,zhiyouzaiyanchanghuili,meiyiciyonglihuiwuyingguangbang,dashengnahandeshihou,zijicaihuituoli“moumoutongxuemama”“moumoufuren”deshenfen,bianhuineigeyuehuiwanyanjiaodaizhexiaoyideren。

duichenchunqinlaishuo,zheizhongduanzandeziwoshifangbujinshiyizhongqingganliaoyu,yeshiburushenghuoguhuadezhongnianjieduanhou,zhongxindingyiziwoshenfendechangshi。

kanyanchanghuijiuxiangnianqingshihoudeyichangyuehui,liuxiaomeiyeyoutongyangdeganshou。“qukanlezhangxinzheyanchanghuihouwocaizhidao,yuanlaizhangxinzhedefensijiaozhangtaitai。”jiangdaozheier,tabuhaoyisidixiaoleqilai。zaiyanchanghuichangguanpangbianchiwanfanhou,baiduchehuilaijie,sijihanzhe:“qingzhangtaitaimenshangche——”,yiyongershangdedaduoshizhongnianren,danreqiedeshenqingyuneixiezhuiliuliangmingxingmendefensi,biewuerzhi。

xiaofengdefumuyezaidaolangyanchanghuili,zhaodaolenianqingshihoudeziji。tamendelaojiazaisichuan,duwanchuzhonghou,daoxinjiangkashendapin。yikaishi,shenmezahuoleihuodouzuo,manmandicaizhaodaoyitiaoheshidedaolu,jingyingqijiazuchanye。daolangbenrenyechushenyusichuanneijiangdeyigexiaoxiancheng,zhanzhuanduodihou,zaixinjiangchenglilegongzuoshi,kaishifaxingyinlezuopin。xiangsiderenshengguiji,rangtamenzaitinggeshigewaiyougongming。

zuozaizhangxinzheyanchanghuidexianchang,liuxiaomeifaxian,guanzhongliyouhenduozhongnianfuqi。tamentanlundehuatichangchangguanyu“dangshinianqingdeshihou……”,kenenghezhangxinzhebingmeiyoushenmezhijieguanxi。duiyutamenlaishuo,zheishiyichangnandede、tebiedeyuehui,shenzhishiguanxidexiufushike。chaimiyouyandezhengchao,douxiaosanzaileyiqichang《airuchaoshui》degeshengli。

yinweidaolangyanchanghuierqudaoshamen,shixiaofengdefumudiercikandaodahai。diyicishixiaofengzaibeijingshangdaxueshi,daitamenquleyiciqinhuangdao。zaigulangyudehaitanbian,mamadesijinbeihaifenggaogaochuiqi,babakanxiangzijideqizi,yanlidoushixiaoyi。

zhangxinzheyanchanghuisanchanghou,liuxiaomeiheguimiyiqichiledunhaidilao,lianggerenyibianfanzhegangcailudeshipin,erbianchuanlai:“duisuoyoudefannaoshuobaibai,duisuoyoudekuaileshuohaihai……”chiwanfan,yijingshiwanshangshiyidian,lidaojiahaiyouyigeduoxiaoshidechecheng。buruzhongnianhou,tayijinghenjiumeiyouzheimewanshuile。liuxiaomeizouzaiyekongxia,qingqinghengzhe“bulunjiejushixishibei,zouguoqianshanwanshui”,taxiangqiziji22suidemougelingchen,budayangdeshaokaodian、fangshengdaxiaodepengyou,heneishibuyongzaihuqingxingyufoudemingtian。

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参考资料:

1.网易号《中老年群体“追星”热:银发经济的新风向》

2.新浪财经《2060年中国65岁以上老人占比超37%,银发社会下,城市经济如何发展?》

3.音乐先声《刀吹们,放过刀郎吧!》

4.凤凰weekly 《刀郎演唱会门票,成了尽孝“硬通货”》

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