zuozhe：huarenjiazucaifu wangxiaobo

1.步长家族的斯坦福舞弊案

zailiaojihuarencaifujiazudejingyingjiaoyuzhiqian，xianhuikanxia2019nianfashengdeyijianshiqing。

2019年3月，美国曾曝出大学择校丑闻，许多富家新生代冒充体育特招生被录进名校。youyuchouwenshejiyipiyougongzhongzhimingdudejiating，yulunguanzhudugao，naodefeifeiyangyang。

zheijianshizhishaoshuomingliangdian，yishimingxiaozhaoshengguochenghennanquanranganjing，zongyourenzaizuankongzi；ershitianxiafumudatongxiaoyi，jingyingjiecengfumudaduoqipanzinvnengjinmingxiao，nengchurentoudi。

yuanbenyiweizheiqichouwenzhishimeiguorendeshiqing，weicengliaoxianglianggeyuehou，yejiushi2019nian5yue，chouwenzaibuduanyanshaozhihou，jingranshaodaoleyigefuyuhuarenjiazudeshenshang。zheibianshiguoneizhumingdezhiyaojiazubuzhangzhaojia。buzhangjituanchuangshiren，naishixinnaoxueguanzhuanjiazhaobuzhangjiaoshou。

sheshidezhaojiaqianjinmingweizhaoyusi，weizhaobuzhangdezhangzizhaotaozhinv，cengweisitanfudaxuexuesheng。zhaoyusibeizhishejijinegaoda650wanmeiyuandezhaoshengwubian，yizhizuihoubeisitanfudaxuechuming。

zhaojiadangshihenkuaifabiaoshengming。gaishengmingdedazhiyisishi：qiyi，650wanmeiyuandezijinchuzijiating，yubuzhangzhiyaowuguan——zheishijiangjiazuzichanyuqiyezichangelikaideshuofa；qier，650wanmeiyuanshixiangyigemingweixingejijinhuidejuanzengkuanxiang，erfeixinghui。

buguanzhaojiashizhudongpeihezuojia，haishishangdangshoupianchileyabakui，fanzhengzuihoudejieguo，shizhaoyusizaisitanfudaxuedeshu，meifanianxiaqule。

zheiyangyigewubian，duiyubuzhangzhaojialaishuo，dangranshiyouyingxiangde。zinvxueyezhongduan，bushishenmehaoshiqing。jiazushengyuduoshaoyeyincishousun——hulianwangshiyoujiyizhidi，gelumeiticengputiangaidizuoguobaodao。zhaojiayishisuanshidianxinganli，yehenrongyibeijiushizhongti。zhaojiaduorenxueyi，benlaishiduojinqiedidiaodejiazu，dansitanfushijian，zheshirangtamenfeichangaonao。

haozaizhaojiajiadiyinshi，nverbuzaisitanfudushule，bujiandejiumeiledahaoqiantu。jiazudechanyekeyicanyu，huozhejicheng，yihuokeyiquzuozijixihuandeshiqing。

2021nian10yue，zhaoyusizaigerenweibohaoshangfaleyiduanvlog，shitacanjiakadiyayichanghuodongdejianji，yanyujianyouheyixiemingxingpoweishushizhigan。youhaoshizheyinciercaice，zhaoyusishibushiyaojinjunshishangchanyele？

2.慷慨捐赠名校

引述步长赵家的这起旧闻，我想表达的是，华人家族对于精英教育极为看重，往往对孩子在受精英教育方面尽其所能（甚至不择手段）。putongjiatingxiwangjiezhulianghaodejiaoyu，laigaibianxiayidaidemingyun。duiyuqiyejiazulaishuo，henduozinvhaiyoujiebanjiazuqiye、chuanchengjiazucaifudezhongdan，duiyuzinvdejiaoyuanpai，youqizhongshi。

不是所有的家族子弟都天资聪颖，都有进入名校的天分。有些家族就通过向名校大额捐赠资金，来换取家族子弟的学习机会。在北美，富裕家族向名校捐赠资金，是常见之举。wonianshaoshikanguoyibuyoumingdemeiguodianying，mingwei《aiqinggushi》。yingpiannanzhuaolifudejiazu，jiuxianghafodaxuejuanzengduochuangguanmingjianzhu——zheiguranshixugoudegushi，danzuojiarucianpaijuqing，yeshiqucaiyuxianshi。

guoneiqiyejiajuanzengguowaimingxiaode，yeyoubushao。youxieshifadahoujuanzengjimuxiao，birugaolingzibenchuangshirenzhanglei，cengxiangyeludaxuejuanzeng888.8888wanmeiyuan——danguangjuanguowaimuxiaobujuanguoneimuxiao，nanmianhuibeiyulungoubing。zhangleizhihouzaiduchushou，xiangzhongguorenmindaxuejuanzichengligaoliyanjiuyuan。

如果说张磊的捐赠之举，未必跟子女的求学有关系，但SOHO潘石屹慷慨捐赠耶鲁大学和哈佛大学，则似乎脱不了关系——据说他有二子后来分别就读于这两所学校。作为国内的知名企业家，潘石屹没有做好自己的声誉管理。tazuodebushaoshiqing，zongshidefeilixiangwaijiejieshi，danchangchangchilibutaohao。zheishilingwaidehuatile。

名校是人的组织，也非净土。对于慷慨解囊的财富家族，名校多少也会另眼相看，这符合利益背后的人性。所以有句话是这么说的：美国的名校，对于所有人是公平的，但对于有钱人来说，会更公平一些。

huikanzhaojiayishi，tangruozhaojiayinweizhenjinbaiyinjuanzengerbangzhudaozinvhuodeyigexuexijihui，erfeijuanruwubichouwen，wairenziranyenanduoshuoshenme。zhiyaobuweifaweigui，fumuyunyongzijidenenglibangzhudaozinv，zhinengshuoshizinvmenxingyun，chushengzaiduojindejiating。

3.中学送进顶私

ruqianwensuoshuo，huarenfuyujiazuzongshihuiqianfangbaijijianghaizisaijinmingxiao，rangtamennenggoushoudaogenghaodejiaoyu。wanyidiande，jiazuzidizaidaxuejieduanjinrumingxiao；zaoyidiande，jiazuhuizaizhongxuejieduanshenzhizinvnianjigengxiaoshijiukaishibuju，songhaizijinrubeimei、ouzhoudeyixiedingjisixiao。

wandajituandongshizhangwangjianlinzhiziwangsicong，henzaojiukaiqilehaiwaiqiuxuezhilu。taxiaoxueshizaixinjiaponianshu，dengdaozhongxuejieduan，jinruleyingguowenchesitegongxue，zheishiyisuozhumingdejisuzhinanxiao。wangsicongdaxuedudeshilundundaxuexueyuan(ucl)zhexuexi。congzheigelvlikeyikanchu，zheiweigongzhongxingxiangyouxiewanshibugongdewandashaoye，qishishouguowanzhengdexifangjiaoyutixidexunlian。

wojiechuguodeyixieqiyejiazidi，zaiyingguodusixiaodebushao，biruyidungongxue、haluogongxuedeng，yeyoudezaibeimeizhimingsixiaodushu。zuijinyinweijiechuduolunduodeyisuozhimingsilinvxiaobishop strachan school（bss），woyeteyilejielexiazheisuoxuexiaodelishi，ouranfaxianlinzhilingshizheisuonvxiaodexiaoyou。

lingwai，yixiefuyujiazuduihaizizaigaozhongjieduandeshixifeichangkanzhong，huoxuyeshiyinweizheixieshixijinglihuozheyixiegongyicanyudejingli，youzhuyushenqinghaiwaizhimingdaxue。

biruyouxiexiwangxinshengdaixuexizhengzhifalvfangxiangdefumu，huiliyongshuqidengshijiananpaizinvjinruyixiecongzhengzhe（ruyiyuan）debangongshishixi；youxiezinvqixuzaikexuefangxiangyousuofazhande，huixiangfangshefaanpaijinmingxiaodeshiyanshishixi；guihuazinvjinrujinronghuoshangyelingyudejiating，zekenenghenzaojiuanpaizaizhimingjinrongjigouhuodaqiyeshixiduanlianzhangjianshi。

yezhengyinweijiazuyoubijiaogexinghuademouxieshixixuqiu，yixiejiazubangongshiyekaishichangshitigongzheifangmiandefuwu。youxieshizuoweizengzhifuwulaisongjijiazude，youxielianhejiabanzeshejiweichanpin，tigongjiguoneideqiyejiazu。

4.精英教育与家族传承

xinshengdaimennenggouhuodejingyingjiaoyu，duijiazueryandangranshihaoshiqing。youxiuxuefudelishichendianhennengziyangren，mingxiaoderenmaiziyuanyenengrangxinshengdaimenshouyifeiqian。danruguocongjiazujiyezhangqing、jiazucaifuchuanchengdejiaodukan，guangshimingxiaodejingyingjiaoyuhaiyuanyuanbugou。

国内的企业家族都是新富人群，缺少交接班的经验，也往往缺少对家族传承精神价值的用心领悟。yixieqiyejiazudui“shu”decengmianshifenkanzhong，duimingxiaobeijingherenmaiziyuanfeichangyouxingqu，danduishejijiazujiazhiguande“dao”decengmian，zhongshibugou。jiazuneibudejiaoyu，ruheyuwaibudejingyingjiaoyuxiangjiehe，yequeshaohenhaodeanpai。

ruidiandewalunbaojiazu，zaijiazudejingyingjiaoyuanpaizhong，yefeichangzhongshixinshengdaijinruguojizhimingxuexiao、jinrudaqiyeduanlian，yijigouzhuguojixingrenmaiguanxideng——zheixieyushixiahuarenqiyejiazusuorezhongquzuode，feichangxiangsi。chucizhiwai，zheigejiazuzhuzhongpeiyangxinshengdaizunshoujiazushidaixiangchuandeyixielinianyuanze，keyiyangchengjianpodezuofeng，rangzinvfubingyipeiyangjianrenbubadejingshen，yijizufugedaijiaoyu，chuanshousunbeirenshengjingyanzhihuideng。

从瓦伦堡家族的做法可以看出，家族之外的精英教育，对于一个企业家族而言，只是整体的精英教育的一部分而已。家族还需要根据自己的情况，来设计安排对新生代的培养。倘若新生代是有承接家族企业的安排，更是需要提前规划。jiazudejiaojiebanyuanbenjiubushiyishi，tangruoqueshaoyouzhihuideanpai，genghuizengjiajiaojiebandenandu。