wen|yuleyingtang maolina

编辑|李春晖

“二舅”治没治好“精神内耗”这个病不好说，绝对向很多人、尤其是年长者kepule“jingshenneihao”zheigeci。cong“neijuan”dao“foxi”zaidao“jingshenneihao”，yigegexincijiucibeitaochulai，yongyishuomingzijiyoubing、shidaiyoubing。

yebunengguainianqingrenweifuxinciqiangshuochou。yixuequanweizazhi《liuyedao》kanzai，2020nianquanqiuxinzeng5300wanlizhongduyiyuzhengbinglihe7600wanlijiaolvzhengbingli。

yourenjiubingchengyi，yourenxiudaoshangji。zaigelupingtaidexiaoguanggaozhong、zaidoubanxiaohongshudefenxiangzhong，jianzhixinlizixunshisihuchengledangdaiqingniandezuijiafuye。zhibingzhiyukaogezheng，shizijiuyijiuren，haishiyouyiciwuxiaoneihaoni？

bulunruhe，zaiappyouyicidanchu“kaogexinlizixunshi”guanggaoshi，jujiagelilianglibaidezhangyanfei（huaming）bingmeixiangguoquyiyangzhijieguandiao，ershidiankaiyemianliulanqilai。

留条后路

“meibanfa，daolewozheigenianji，huinanyibimiandijiaolvqilai。”28sui、beipiao、zaihulianwangqiyenazhebugaobudidegongzi，gongzuoneirongbujubeibuketidaixing，xingyeyouyidianfengchuicaodongdougouzhangyanfeijiaolvyizhenzi。

gongsijiyuangongpeilexinlizixunshi，yuyuejikexiangshoumianfeishudao。danzhangyanfeizongjuedeneishigongsibuxiataohuadeyanxian，ningkequwaimianzijizhaoren。shimianshangdexinlizixunshi，shoufeidagaizai500/xiaoshi，yizhouliangci，yiciliao2-3xiaoshi，yigeliaochengqimasayue。zhangyanfeiqulejicijiukaishirouteng，gancuizijimaishukan。

“zuikaishimeixiangkaozheng，jiushijuedekanbingtaiguiburuzijikanshu。danjinniandahuanjingzhendetaichale，woxiangshibushidejizijiliutiaohoulule。”wumenjian、tongguolvgao、rencaiquekouda、yuelaoyuechixiang、jubeibuketidaixing，xiaoguanggaoshangdejigeguanjianciqueshizhijizhangyanfeitongdian。lingwai，tayezhenrenshiyiweijianzhizuoxinlizixundexiegangqingnian——xuezhang。

xuezhangbiyehoujinruchuanmeijituanfuzeqingganbankuai，gongzuoneirongjiushiqingtingchinanyuannvmendegushi，bingzhuanxiechengzhangwen。kandengchulaidegushi，zhishixuezhangjieshouxinxidebaifenzhiyi，daliangjisuisanguandejiugezhinengxuezhangyigerenxiaohua，biru“waishengaishangqinjiuma”zheizhong。shijianzhangle，xuezhangjuedezijishoudaofumianyingxiang，qingxuchuxianlewenti，yushigoumailedaliangxinlixueshuji，kaishizixuezhibing。

zixueleyiduanshijian，xuezhangbujinnengdiaojiezijidefumianqingxu，shenzhikeyiyongshuzhongzhishibangzhushenbiantongshi、pengyoujiejuekunrao。yushigancuikaolegeguojiaxinlizixunshierjizhengshu，zhengshichizhengshanggang。“baoshedehuoertayehaizaiganzhe，xinlizixunyeyizhizaizuo，jileilebushaojingyanyoubudanwuzhengjinggongzuo，duohaoa。” zhangyanfeiyoudianxianmu。

zhangzhezijishibendituzhu，huangyoulehaojinianhaizaizuojichuzhaopindehrakang，yezhunbeikaogexinlizixunshizheng。

“yizhijuedezijishibendiren，buyongzhuantaiduoyoufengongzuojiuxing，suoyigongzuoshangfuzadeyebuxiangxue，jiuyizhizaizuozhaopin。jieguogongsinianchugangweihebing，yixiazibawokaile。”akangxiangzhezijikaijiabugao，henkuaijiunengzairuzhi。

dantuzhushenfensihuchengletazuidadequedian。zaiwangshanggoutongshi，duifangtingshuotashibendirenjiubushuohuale。xiangjiarukaobiandajunba，youjuanbuguobieren。

“xinlizixunyesuanshihrdeyigefangxiang，wobenkeyeyouyixiexinlixuexiangguankecheng，zhongxinjianqilaiyinggaibunan。erqiebushaoqiye、shequyeyaoqiubixupeibeixinlizixunshi。”

chulezhangyanfei、akangzheixiezhichangren，yingtangjundiaochafaxian，yixiebushanganbubaxiudebiyesheng，yezhunbeishunshoukaogexinlizixunshizhengshu。

“zhengshuduokendingbushihuaishi，wanyiyihouyouyongni。”cailikaixiaoyuandetamenxiangxinmeiyoubaixuedezhishi。zhidezhuyideshi，zaixuexinlizixundajunzhong，haiyoubushaozhiyeyishi。“yihuanguanxitaijinzhangle，wopasiyoudianxiangpaolu。”

zheihuorejiashi，daorangyingtangjunxiangqizijibiyeneinian，renrendoukaohuijizhengdechangmian。

有证心不慌

dagaishizuotikaoshixingweimoshishenrugusui，suiran2017nianguojiajiuyijingquxiaole“guojiaxinlizixunshierji、sanjizhengshu”，danduizhangyanfeimeneryan，zhengshushizhongdaibiaozheyizhongxingyerenke。

“yaowoshuojiushiluan。”zaihuadongshifanxuele7nianxinlixuedemeisanggankai，xinlizixunxingyemuqianzhengchuyuhundundezhuanxingqi，shimianshangsuoweide“zhengshu”qishimeiyouyigeshibeiguojiarenkede，baokuofenghendadezhongkeyuanxinliyanjiusuozhengshu。

zaimeisangkanlai，feikebanchushenderenxiangjinruzheigexingye，zuihaodetujingjiushixuelijiaoyu。kaoyanhuozhequguowaishenzao，xitongdijinxinglilunjishicaoxuexi。haiwaibushaodaxuedousheyou“xinlizixun”zhuanye，qiehuiweixueshenganpaishixi，jileizixunshu。guoneisheli“xinlizixun”zhuanyedexuexiaojiaoshao，qiexuefeibiputongzhuanyeguibushao，youdeyinianjiuyaoshiwanzuoyou。

danduiyuzhangyanfei、akangzheiyangdefeikebanyouyaoshangbandemenwaihan，baobanshangkeshitamenweiyidexuanze。“wodebenkexuelihaiyougongzuojingli，genxinlizixunwanquanbuzhanbian，xiangjinruzheigexingyeyebuzhidaogaiconghezuoqi。baogebanzhishaoyourenjiyinlu，zuihouhaiyougezhengshu，yesuanshiwojieshouguoxitongpeixun，youzhiyezigedezhengmingle。” zhangyanfeishuo。

danzaimeisangkanlai，wulunshizhongkeyuanxinyansuohaishiguopeiwang，shenzhiyixiehaiwaijigoudepeixunkecheng，hanjinliangdoubugao。yitaokechengxuexialaizhinengshuomodaolepimao，shenzhilianrumendousuanbushang。

“zheimeshuoba，woxuele7nianxinlixueyebuganshuozijinengjibierenzuoxinlizixun。xinlixueshixinlizixundejichu，xinlizixunxuyaolilunhejiqiao，butongliupaidejiqiao、goutongfangshiyebuyiyang。neixiejigeyuedepeixun，meiyimenkechengdousayansidejiangyidian，nengxuedaoshenme？”

xuyaozhichudeshi，zheileijigoushouyudebingbushi“congyezigezheng”，ershi“jichupeixunhegezheng”，zuiduojiushizhengmingnicanjiaguoxiangguanpeixunqietongguolekaoshi。jucanjiaguoxinyansuopeixunderentoulu，kaoshizhengtinandubuda，yixuanzetijuduo，jibenjiushiwenguo。

guojiazhengshudequxiaoshiyinweicongyezhefanyingzhunrumenjiantaidi，buzuyizhenbie。erzhengshuquxiaohouzheigezhenkongqi，fanerjilejigoumenzilibiaozhundejihui。muqianshimianshangdabufenyuxinlizixunxiangguandezhengshu，douyaotongguojigoubaoming，yesuanshilingyizhongfangshide“huaqianmaizheng”。

yimeisangkan，duiyushangbanzueryan，jiangpeixunkechengzuoweiqiaomenzhuanyekeyi，danyidingyaoxuanzeshijianzhangde，peixunshijianzai2nianzuoyouneizhong。erlilunzhishizaifengfu，julichengweizixunshiyehaichadeyuan，shicaocaishizuizhongyaode。

wulunshiruzhuwangshangdexinlizixunpingtai，haishijiaruxianxiadexinlizixunjigou，douyaoqiuruzhuzixunshiyouyidingdezixunxiaoshishujilei，yibanxuyao100gexiaoshiyishang。ruguoshixiangguanzhuanyexuesheng，xuexiaohuibudingqizuzhituantishicao，birubeishidajiuyoumianxiangshehuidemianfeixinlizixunhuodong，xueshenghuodeshicaojilei，laifangzhemianfeitiyanfuwu。danmenwaihanxianranmeiyouzheiyangdejihui，zhinengjiaoqianshangjigoutigongdeqitakecheng，huanquruzhuzige。

心理咨询赚钱吗？

2021nian，xinlifuwupingtai“jiandanxinli”fabu《2020dazhongxinlijiankangdongchabaogao》，zhichu2021 nian42.67% delaifangzhe（jibinghuan）xuanzeledancifeiyong500yuanyishangdexinlizixunfuwu。diliujiezhongguojingshenfenxidahuidebaogaozexianshi，guoneixinlizixunshirencaiquekougaoda43wan+。

dancishoufeizhuandeduo、rencaiquekoujuda，zheishigejiapeixundachudeguanggaoyu、yeshixiyinzhangyanfeimendeyuanyin。danxinlixuekebandemeisangqueshuo，zijiyanjiusheng+benketongxueyigong50laigeren，zuihouzhencongshixinlizixundejiuliang，qizhong1gehaishiyinweiyouyixuebeijing，zhijiequlejingshenbingyuan。

“qiansannianshenzhiwuniangenbenbuzhuanqian，yaobujialiyouqianweiaifadian，yaobuzuobiedegongzuoyanghuoziji。”meisangdetongxuejibendouquledachang，tazijiyemeizaizheitiaolushangzouxiaqu，ershikaolebianzhiduanqitiefanwan。jiulianzhumingxinlixuejiayuexiaodongdoushuo，“zheigexingyezhuanbudaoshenmeqian，danshitanengrangnihenyouchengjiugan。”

meisangyechengren，tasuoxuede“xinlixue”pianzhongyulilunzhishi，yuxinlizixunhaishiyouyixiequbie。xinlixuezhuanyezuihaodejieju，jiushiyilududaobo，zuihouliuzaigaoxiaozuolaoshi。lingwaiyingtangjunyecongyiliaoxitonglejiedao，xinlizixunshiyuxinliyishengbutong，qianzhemeiyouchufangquan。xiangzuoxinliyishengjiubixuyouzhiyeyizhengshu，neiduiyuwaixingrengengshinanrudengtian。

neijiuxiangkaozhengguanggaolishuode，jianzhizuogexinlizixunshinengzhuanqianma？yetingnan。

xinlizixunshidejinjieshikaogeanleiji，danduiyufeikebandexinshou，zuinandejiushihuodediyigelaifangzhe。jiuxiangniquyiyuan，leyihuayiyangdeqianrangshixishengjinikanbingma？

yushi，xinshouzixunshijiuzhinengkaozaizhihu、douban、xiaohongshudengpingtaifaguanggaohuozhejiaoqianshangke，manzutiaojianhouruzhujigou，tigongmianfeihuojiqidijia（ruzhujigouxufencheng）dezixunfuwu，jileizijidezixunxiaoshi。yuqitaxingyebutong，xinlizixunshizijiyeshiyaozuozixunde，geyiduanshijianyaoquzhaodudaoduizijijinxingxinlifudao。haodedudaoshoufeibufei，zhuandeneidianzixunfeigenbenbugou。

简单心理平台部分督导咨询费一览

qiexinlizixunshixuyaozhongshenxuexide，jishishicongyeduonianyijingkeyidulijiedailaifangzhedezixunshi，yeyaobuduanquxuexi、quhuaqiantiyanqitaliupailaijingjinzijideshuiping。

dangran，queshiyourenkaojianzhizuoxinlizixunshizhuanleqian，biruzhangyanfeidexuezhang。jushuomeiniandaole6yuefenkaoshiji，tajiuhuimangdesijiaochaotian。zheiyifangmiandeyiyuxuezhangzaozaojinrulezheigexingye，yifangmianyeyutasuochupingtai，yijipingtaiweitadailaiderenmaiyouguan。xuezhangdecaifangtiaoxianchuleqingganhaiyoujiaoyu，zuoweiyixianjizhetayoujihuiyuxuesheng、jiazhangzhijiejiechu，huoqulaifangzhegengshuidaoqucheng。

xiaohongshu、doubanshangyeyourenfenxiangjianzhizuozixundezhifugushi，dandiankaitouxiangbunanfaxian，neixiesuowei“fuyechaoguoquanzhishouru”defenxiang，duoshijigouhao。zhenzhengzaizuojianzhizixunderenbiaoshi，liangyuenengyouyigelaifangzheyijingjiubucuole，“9.9yuanzixun15fenzhonghaidehepingtaifencheng，daoshougenbenmeiduoshao”。

“wojianyiyuqikaoguakaojigoudexinlizixunshizheng，buruqukaogeshegongzhenggengkaopu。youxinlizixunzhishichubei，youyoushegongzhengzaishou，keyijinrushegongjigougongzuo。”meisangshituzhilu。

danzhangyanfeikanwandaliangxiangguanbikengfenxianghou，yijingjuedingfangqikaozhengle。“yaobuwozhaozhaoguanxi，jiamenggexinlizixunpeixunjigouba。taojinburumaishui。”