“quanzhiernv”huatizhengzaishejiaopingtaishangyinfaguangfantaolun。zaidouban，“quanzhiernvgongzuojiaoliuzhongxin”yongyouchaoguo3400mingyonghu，nianqingrenzifajuji，zaixiantaolunzheifenyijujiazhaogulaorenweizhudezhiye。genjuwangyouzongjie，quanzhiernvzhideshinianqingrentuochanhoujijuyufumushenghuo，bingtongguofuchuyidingdelaodonghuanqujingjizhichi，tongshibaochixuexi，changshizhaodaoxindezhiyemubiao。

quanzhiernvgaikuozheyigequntideshenghuozhuangtai，danjutilaikan，renmenchengweiquanzhiernvdeyuanyingebuxiangtong，yourenpoyucaiyuan、shiyedeyali，beipotuishoujiating；yeyourenzhudongxuanzetiaochuzhichang，zhongxinguihuazijiderensheng。

huazhongkejidaxuemakesizhuyixueyuanfujiaoshouzhoulangxiangjiemianxinwenbiaoshi，yangeyiyishanglaishuo，jijufumushenghuobingbusuanyizhongzhiye。zhangqichenjinyuquanzhiernvdejiaosezhong，jujueburushehui，bingbuzhidegulihetichang，danqingnianruojiangzheiyishenfenzuoweixunzhaogerenfazhanlushangdehuanchong，yeyingdangshoudaozhichihelijie。

从失业到“入职”，稳住心态

yiqingqijian，wangxiaoxiaocengjingduanzandidanrenquanzhiernv，jujiabannianduo，tabangzhumamayiqizhaogunianyujiushisuidelaolao，maicai、zecai、xiyifu，weilaorenchiyaodoushitadegongzuo。

zaijiali，wangxiaoxiaogengxiangshimamadezhuli，tademamajiushiyimingquanzhiernv。chushengyushangshijiliushiniandaidenongcun，xiaoxiaomachuzhongbiyehoubunengfenpeigongzuo，zaijiaxiangwunong、dalinggong。suizhefumuwobingzaichuang，xiaoxiaomachengdanqijujiazhaogushuangqindegongzuo。jiazhongdeqitasimingxiongdijiemeimeiyuezhifu1000yuanyongyushanyanglaoren，zhei4000yuanjiushidexiaoxiaomagongzi。zaijiazhongsimingxiongdijiemeikanlai，youzijiajiemeizhaogulaoren，jifangxin，youbutieleqinqideshengji。

yiqingqijian，zaiyijiasiyingxiaoweiqiyecongshicaiwugongzuodewangxiaoxiaojielianjinglilejiangxinyushiye。taxuanzezanshihuidaobeijingyuanjiao，tahemamayiqizhuzailaolaojia。“buyongfudanfangzu，zijimaicaizuofanchengbenhendi，”zaifangyiqijian，wangxiaoxiaojianshaowanggoucishu，yexuejianleshejiaohuodongdekaizhi。tatidao，zijizhiqiangongzuosannianzanxialeyixiejixu，jialimaicai、maishenghuoyongpindezhichutadouhuizhudongfuze。

“jiawulaodongyeshiyoujiazhide。”wangxiaoxiaorenwei，jishizijishibeipohuiguijiating，danbingbudaibiaochulijiashijiumeiyouyiyi。

tarengxiangzhongfanzhichang，bajianliguazaizhaopinwangzhanshang，yeqingqinqipengyoubangmangneitui，danxiaoguobingbuhao。“wobiyeyushuangfeibenke，ciqiandegongzuoxiangduijichu，zhaogongzuofeichangkunnan。”yiqingqijian，chumenmianshimianlinzhedilishangdebubianheganrandefengxian，zaijiachengweilewangxiaoxiaozuiyoudexuanze。

zhoulangbiaoshi，“quanzhiernv”dechuxian，gengduotixiandeshijiuyenanbeijingxiagetidewunaixuanze。wangxiaoxiaorenwei，zaijiuyejingzhengjiliedeqingkuangxia，youxierenbeipochengweiquanzhiernv，dandiaozhenghaoxintaicaikenengyingjieyifenxindegongzuo。

不想勉强自己，也不想虚度光阴

daxueshengbiyehoubujiyujinruzhichang，ershizhijiao、baitan、lvxing，chengweimanjiuyeyizu，xuanzehuiguijiatingdeyiqunrenzidongchengweilequanzhiernv。

quanzhiernvjinguangongzuoxingtaileisi，danqiyinyumudequecunzaibutong，yeyouzhebuyiyangdexinzilaiyuan。lichengwendaxueyibiyejiuchengweilequanzhierzi，tacengjing“shunyingshishi”，duanzandijinruhulianwanggongsishangban，sangexingqizhihou，queyinweibuxihuangongzuoneirongheshanghaiyedianwangerzhudonglizhi。

tatuishoulaojia，genzhelaolaozhuzaixiangxiadeyuanzili。“laolaotuixiujinsanqianduoyuan，tahua1000，wohua1000，haisheng1000cunqilai，jialihuoerwoquanbaole。”

quanzhiernvhuatizaiwangluoshangliuxingqilaishi，yinfalebufenpipingdeshengyin，“daxuebiyehoubushangban，bujiushibakenlaohuanlegeshuofama”。lichengwenjiadezhangbeijiucengjingduitatichuleisidezhiyi。

raner，zixixunwenlichengwenbiyehoudeshenghuoanpaikeyifaxian，tacongshiguoduofenjianzhi，xieruanwen、huodongchangwu、youxidailian，“zhuandianqian，tiyanshenghuo”。suiranmeiyouyifenwendingdegongzuo，dantarengranzaiguihuazhezijideshouruheshejiao，“buzaibangongshilizuozhe，danzanbunengxuduguangyin”。tabaquanzhiernvxingrongchengyizhongduanzandeshenghuozhuangtai，yongyutiyanshengmingdekuaigan，jiweilaixunzhaoxindekeneng。

zhoulangfujiaoshouzhichu，“chuquzhaogongzuo”bujinjinshiyizhongmoushenghuofazhanyiyishangdexingwei，haishitedingnianlingjieduanxiagetizouxiangshehui、shunyingshehuishijiandebiaozhi。zaizheigeyiyishang，qingnianzhangqichenjinyu“quanzhizinv”jiaosejishinishehuihua，yeshi“nishehuishizhong”de，bingbuzhidegulihetichang。danruoqingnianjinjinjiangqidangzuoyigemaixiangjiuyeguochengzhongdelinshixing“huanchong”，zeshikeyilijiede，shehuicengmianyeyingjiyubaorongshidelijiehezhichi。

lichengwenzuoweiquanzhiernvde“gongling”manyinianhou，tatongguocengcengmianshi，zhongxinjinruleyijiaqiyeshangban。tashuo，muqiandegongzuoneirongshizijixihuande，“ruguozheifengongzuoduiwolaishuoshiquleyiyi，buruzaihuiquzuoquanzhierzi？”

（wenzhongwangxiaoxiao、lichengwenweihuaming。）